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It's been 6 months

It’s been 6 months since I jumped ship and I haven’t regretted it for one second.

I’d been seriously thinking about leaving work for the previous 2 or 3 years but did struggle with the whole idea especially as I’m only in my early 50’s.  I’d spend years building a career and didn’t notice how institutionalised I'd become.

I managed to get myself on a voluntary redundancy scheme which was the icing on the cake.

I won’t offer any advice as we are all different, but some thoughts:

  • If you like your job, are well paid & healthy – you’ve already won life’s lottery, keep working.
  • If you don’t like your job, do something about it, change role, move jobs, retire.  Just don’t sit there like many of us do and whine. Easy to say I know.
  • I worked for a typical soulless multinational; but to be fair when I told them I wanted to leave they went to great lengths to find me another position I would be happy in. But by this time I wanted a complete change. Life is short and all that.

  • Years ago I sat in an office where the majority were in their 50/60’s all waiting for one of the regular redundancy deals to come along and then complaining if they got turned down. That prompted me to start my financial planning and I aimed to be able to go on my own terms when the time came. The early you start saving the better, just not at the cost of living for today.
  • They say talking is good, but most people can’t put themselves in your shoes. Those into FIRE will tell you to go for it without any real thought (these boards being an exception :) ).  On the other side you’ll get advice like I did that I was mad leaving as I would lose my company death benefit. As generous as it was it’s not much to good to somebody with no dependants.
  • Knowing how much you spend in a typical year is essential, whether by recording in Excel, MS Money, your banking App etc the tool doesn’t matter, but knowing the number has been vital to my plans.
  • I read many posts saying you had to have a plan for when you go, and that a staged transition is good. Having worked in roles where I had to plan everything to the nth degree, I wasn’t going to do that. Before I left, I did worry about how I would fill my time, but then came to realise that’s corporate thinking. I don’t need to fill my time; the key is to be occupied and keep the mind & body healthy. There’s nothing wrong with sometimes just watching the world go by.
There’s nothing new nor profound in this list but I just wanted to put it out there.
And thankyou to the regular posters, many of the online discussions are more knowledgeable and useful that the face to face ones I had with friends and colleagues.
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  • Marcon
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    Snot said:


    And thankyou to the regular posters, many of the online discussions are more knowledgeable and useful that the face to face ones I had with friends and colleagues.
    They are certainly more likely to be accurate!

    Happy retirement. 
    Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!  
  • gambleruk
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    Great post, totally agree about having to know your number, that is the number one thing I tell people to do when they ask how I managed to retire so early, if covid had not come along I probably would still be sitting there and whining and no doubt be financially worse off than what I am now. Like you said easier said than done but it still amazes me how much money you save not working.

    Enjoy your retirement.
  • katejo
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    gambleruk said:
    Great post, totally agree about having to know your number, that is the number one thing I tell people to do when they ask how I managed to retire so early, if covid had not come along I probably would still be sitting there and whining and no doubt be financially worse off than what I am now. Like you said easier said than done but it still amazes me how much money you save not working.

    Enjoy your retirement.
    Some of the money saved during Covid lockdown was because I wasn't paying travel to work but also because I couldn't go out socially/go on holiday. Now that I am working from home and have over 60's free off peak travel, I still save on work travel but cafes are open and I can go on holiday. I might spend more on this when retired.
  • shortseller09
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    katejo said:

    Now that I am working from home and have over 60's free off peak travel
    I presume you're in London then...?
  • MallyGirl
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    I agree on the number thing - there is a sticky on this subject for a good reason. I have always had a general idea of what we spend and what we might need in retirement but started recording month by month spends in the major categories at the start of this year. I am largely right so far but there are still annual costs (vehicle related mostly) that haven't happened yet. We will have enough that I don't need to track the small stuff thankfully.
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  • SouthCoastBoy
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    To get to our number a couple of years ago I opened a joint account and put £2500 per month into it, everything comes out of that except maybe £100 or £200 per mth for small discretionary spends, we run a surplus so I am fairly confident on what we need. Big capital expenditure items such as cars will need to be funded separately.
    It's just my opinion and not advice.
  • katejo
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    katejo said:

    Now that I am working from home and have over 60's free off peak travel
    I presume you're in London then...?
    Yes. I do of course still pay on days when I have to be on site before 9am..
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