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Child's Accidental Damage To Neighbour's Car

EarthboundMisfit2112
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Hello Knowledgeable People,
My 5-year-old daughter hit a neighbour's car with a stick and cracked the headlight casing.
It was an accident - she was playing/running past and not intentionally causing damage - but we have video evidence to prove that she is responsible for the damage - and I am obviously responsible for her!
I offered to pay for the damage as soon as I was presented with the evidence. The neighbour has been very calm, communicative and helpful, but unfortunately the quote for repair has come back at just over £1700, which I can't afford to pay outright.
Does anyone have any advice?
I am waiting to hear back from my home insurance people, as a quick Google search suggested that this might be covered, depending on the policy, but I am not well-versed in the realms of insurance or damaging other people's property!
Thanks in advance!
My 5-year-old daughter hit a neighbour's car with a stick and cracked the headlight casing.
It was an accident - she was playing/running past and not intentionally causing damage - but we have video evidence to prove that she is responsible for the damage - and I am obviously responsible for her!
I offered to pay for the damage as soon as I was presented with the evidence. The neighbour has been very calm, communicative and helpful, but unfortunately the quote for repair has come back at just over £1700, which I can't afford to pay outright.
Does anyone have any advice?
I am waiting to hear back from my home insurance people, as a quick Google search suggested that this might be covered, depending on the policy, but I am not well-versed in the realms of insurance or damaging other people's property!
Thanks in advance!
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Firstly, how old is the car? For a five year old with a, presumably wooden stick to crack a headlight it would have to be very weak, already damaged or have plastic fatigue.
Secondly, how is a headlight casing £1700?1 -
The garages my neighbour has asked so far have said either 'they can't do it' or 'the whole headlamp unit needs to be replaced'. (She and I are both looking elsewhere for quotes to confirm). I'm gobsmacked by the amount.
I'm not sure how to tell the age of a car, but it's a decent-looking Mercedes in good nick.
Sadly, it was a very sturdy wooden stick (that will no longer be played with around cars!!!). I guess my daughter just caught it on a weak spot!0 -
maisie_cat said:Firstly, how old is the car? For a five year old with a, presumably wooden stick to crack a headlight it would have to be very weak, already damaged or have plastic fatigue.
Secondly, how is a headlight casing £1700?
I'm not sure how to tell the age of a car, but it's a decent-looking Mercedes in good nick.
Sadly, it was a very sturdy wooden stick (that will no longer be played with around cars!!!). I guess my daughter just caught it on a weak spot!
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EarthboundMisfit2112 said:maisie_cat said:Firstly, how old is the car? For a five year old with a, presumably wooden stick to crack a headlight it would have to be very weak, already damaged or have plastic fatigue.
Secondly, how is a headlight casing £1700?0 -
mebu60 said:EarthboundMisfit2112 said:maisie_cat said:Firstly, how old is the car? For a five year old with a, presumably wooden stick to crack a headlight it would have to be very weak, already damaged or have plastic fatigue.
Secondly, how is a headlight casing £1700?1 -
EarthboundMisfit2112 said:maisie_cat said:Firstly, how old is the car? For a five year old with a, presumably wooden stick to crack a headlight it would have to be very weak, already damaged or have plastic fatigue.
Secondly, how is a headlight casing £1700?
You child as a 5 year old is not legally liable for the damage they cause. A parent may or may not be liable for the damage their young child causes, it's not automatic that they are. You are expected to exercise reasonable control, the younger the kid the more control is expected but are not legally their servant or agent so as long as reasonable control was in place no liability transfers to you.
Replacing a whole headlight unit on a relatively recent merc will be expensive. Ultimately you could had the matter to your Contents Insurer but they may well argue that there is no liability and as such tell your neighbour to go whistle.1 -
Could the car owner claim on their own insurance and the OP pays the excess?0
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Bradden said:Could the car owner claim on their own insurance and the OP pays the excess?
Their insure may try and sue the OP but then the OP's insurer would respond. Its likely claim via an insurer will be notably more than the private repair cost for the same job.1 -
The normal answer to not being able to afford an unexpected expense is to get a personal loan.
You can potentially save money by having the headlight fixed at a different garage, but the owner has a reasonable expectation that a Mercedes part will be fitted not some cheap aftermarket garbage. You could call around the local Mercedes dealers to see if you can get the part at the best possible price, and then fit it yourself. They usually just bolt or clip in, and there may be a Youtube video that shows you what to do. alternatively a local garage will fit the part for their normal labour charge.
The dealer will be able to quote for the headlight if you give them the VRN.The comments I post are my personal opinion. While I try to check everything is correct before posting, I can and do make mistakes, so always try to check official information sources before relying on my posts.1 -
TheMilkmansDad said:mebu60 said:EarthboundMisfit2112 said:maisie_cat said:Firstly, how old is the car? For a five year old with a, presumably wooden stick to crack a headlight it would have to be very weak, already damaged or have plastic fatigue.
Secondly, how is a headlight casing £1700?0
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