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  • badmemory
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    If all these debts date back to 2008 it is quite possible that none of them show on credit reports & none of them may be enforcable.  Except the mortgage of course.
  • sourcrates
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    badmemory said:
    If all these debts date back to 2008 it is quite possible that none of them show on credit reports & none of them may be enforcable.  Except the mortgage of course.
    OP`s Dad has been paying them, so won`t be statute barred, they could of course send CCA requests, which was to be my next choice if write offs failed.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • rachelmc_4
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    Update - Cabot, Lowell and Capital one all acceptable a greatly reduced offer and I’m now just dealing with the NatWest. The first three were really understanding after I send emails to them. NatWest are taking longer and I had to send medical evidence. Awaiting decision at present. 
  • chubsta
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    Update - Cabot, Lowell and Capital one all acceptable a greatly reduced offer and I’m now just dealing with the NatWest. The first three were really understanding after I send emails to them. NatWest are taking longer and I had to send medical evidence. Awaiting decision at present. 
    Thanks for the update, it can be really helpful for others to see how a particular scenario actually played out.
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  • rachelmc_4
    rachelmc_4 Posts: 15 Forumite
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    So we have very quickly after this update received a response from NatWest. They accepted the partial settlement offer of £5000 and the original secured debt/overdraft owed was £13500 or there about. All companies have been understanding and helpful when in the beginning I thought no one would listen and help. 
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,597 Ambassador
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    That`s good, so is Dad in the clear now money wise?

    What`s the current situation?
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
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