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Husband's name used by son to guarantee a loan
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Chi326 said:It appears from the documentation that we have managed to obtain from the lender that our son used a second email address which he had in his name, a different one from which he would normally use. My husband has no sight of this and this was obviously where the copies were sent, the lender would havd sent two sets of everything directly to our son.
From reading previous answers today we have contacted the police directly, explaining that Action Fraud are not prepared to pursue but our local police are making a direct visit to us this weekend. We are entirely innocent in this and will do all we can to prove it.0 -
BoGoF said:Chi326 said:It appears from the documentation that we have managed to obtain from the lender that our son used a second email address which he had in his name, a different one from which he would normally use. My husband has no sight of this and this was obviously where the copies were sent, the lender would havd sent two sets of everything directly to our son.
From reading previous answers today we have contacted the police directly, explaining that Action Fraud are not prepared to pursue but our local police are making a direct visit to us this weekend. We are entirely innocent in this and will do all we can to prove it.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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We have checked with the three major Credit Ref Companies for searches and there is only one showing to which this loan appertains, so at least for the time being we only have this one to deal with.
And yes we are aware of the potential ramifications of police involvement but after the amounts of money we have already helped our son with we really do have no choice, it has to stop now.
I realise people in these forum groups will all have their own feelings on individual cases and it's difficult not to be judgemental without having all the prior knowledge.
But I do thank you all for your input.3 -
Chi326 said:We have checked with the three major Credit Ref Companies for searches and there is only one showing to which this loan appertains, so at least for the time being we only have this one to deal with.
And yes we are aware of the potential ramifications of police involvement but after the amounts of money we have already helped our son with we really do have no choice, it has to stop now.
I realise people in these forum groups will all have their own feelings on individual cases and it's difficult not to be judgemental without having all the prior knowledge.
But I do thank you all for your input.
With regards the CRAs, I think there is an option to make a note on them to alert of any possible future applications.
This should ensure more stringent checks are made in the future, if they should arise.
I can't remember exactly what it's called, but someone else will probably be along shortly with the proper name for it.
If you feel able, please come back and update this thread with how things turn out. Good Luck.How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)1 -
Sea_Shell said:Chi326 said:We have checked with the three major Credit Ref Companies for searches and there is only one showing to which this loan appertains, so at least for the time being we only have this one to deal with.
And yes we are aware of the potential ramifications of police involvement but after the amounts of money we have already helped our son with we really do have no choice, it has to stop now.
I realise people in these forum groups will all have their own feelings on individual cases and it's difficult not to be judgemental without having all the prior knowledge.
But I do thank you all for your input.
With regards the CRAs, I think there is an option to make a note on them to alert of any possible future applications.
This should ensure more stringent checks are made in the future, if they should arise.
I can't remember exactly what it's called, but someone else will probably be along shortly with the proper name for it.
If you feel able, please come back and update this thread with how things turn out. Good Luck.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing1 -
It would be helpful if you can name the lender, and the collection company chasing the debt.
We can then assess there collection process.
Certain guarantor loan providers send the money direct to the guarantor to distribute the funds, as previously advised.
Other banks who are not specialist lenders just send the money to the applicant, but will chase the guarantor if payments are missed.
You say the collection company is threatening legal action, do they refer to "their client" at all?
Only a debts owner can take legal action, a collection company with only an equitable assignment, can do nothing but ask you for payment.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter1 -
mr_stripey said:Chi326 said:No monies were received into any of our or my husband's account, your information is incorrect in that funds are transferred to the guarantor.
In reply to comment 2 my son has admitted to this to my husband and myself but has no money to repay any of this.
This has been reported to Action Fraud England but it would appear the police organisations are only looking into major fraud cases.
Had the funds been paid into an account in your husband’s name, they’d have been returned to the company as soon as he found them. Or, if son had set up an account with a bank using his father’s details, then that would have been reported as fraud to the bank, which itself would have generated some evidence that could have been provided to the loan company.
ActionFraud should surely issue a reference number to prove the report, even if they won’t investigate.0
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