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  • badmemory
    badmemory Posts: 10,627 Forumite
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    The issues may not be new but they are certainly getting much worse.  A few years ago someone I was working with had a child starting at a high school that had just become an academy.  The new uniform included designer trousers.  I mean designer trousers for an 11 year old!  She thought it was great until I explained that it was a way to prevent any new students from not being among the better off & all about lining their own pockets.  Nothing like using money to keep out the lower classes.  I thought that was the province of grammar schools now but obviously not.  It meant the next years intake were much better off because those who weren't chose a different school as their first choice.  Can I confess to being amused that the school that all the losers went to from being the lowest is now the highest locally.  I have also only ever seen one uniform not fully in place including ties & frankly I just hope she was wearing a thong, if there hadn't been a massive queue of traffic I would have stopped
  • kayannie
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    badmemory said:
    The issues may not be new but they are certainly getting much worse.  A few years ago someone I was working with had a child starting at a high school that had just become an academy.  The new uniform included designer trousers.  I mean designer trousers for an 11 year old!  She thought it was great until I explained that it was a way to prevent any new students from not being among the better off & all about lining their own pockets.  Nothing like using money to keep out the lower classes.  I thought that was the province of grammar schools now but obviously not.  It meant the next years intake were much better off because those who weren't chose a different school as their first choice.  Can I confess to being amused that the school that all the losers went to from being the lowest is now the highest locally.  I have also only ever seen one uniform not fully in place including ties & frankly I just hope she was wearing a thong, if there hadn't been a massive queue of traffic I would have stopped
    We even had to wear regulation baggy navy blue knickers and, even worse, had to strip to those for P.E. (but it was called gym in those far off days!)
    KA
  • badmemory
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    Do not remind me about those navy blue knickers, although the split skirts for hockey were fine.  Interesting fact - my games teacher was the same as my mothers 20 years earlier but at a different school.  Further interesting fact - she didn't fancy my mother & never managed to get me to play for the school team.  But at lest I got to play in goal at hockey.  Me avoid showers - never.
  • Oh gawd.  I am old enough to have been in primary school when you did PE in your pants and vest - certainly in the first few years and when it was inside in the gym/dining hall.  We had to have PE when 'Music & Movement' was on BBC schools radio.  No easy tape recording or downloading or 'listen again' in them days - if you we're in the hall with the (red leather) radio on at 10.55am (or whatever it was), the programme started without you!

    Good auld days...........

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  • I remember music & movement but we did it in the classroom 
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  • It wasn’t a case of getting off easy, it was more a lack of facilities 
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st 1lb determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge. I’m not perfect but I’m good enough.
  • rtandon27
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    Greying_Pilgrim said:

    ...All the play areas at primary school were hard tarmac or gritty tarmac - tore you to shreds if you fell over 😕

    oh yes - I can relate!  Still have the scars on my knees - our 'play' area was tarmac and concrete - with the track painted onto it!
    4 YEARS 10 MONTHS DEBT FREE!!! (24 OCT 2016)
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    ...and now I have a mortgage! (23 AUG 2021)
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