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I inherited half a house with my brother who wants to mortgage it
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Add to my previous post,
Is he paying you rent on his half of the house? Or is he living rent free on your half, borrowing money against your equity and telling everyone he is paying all the mortgage, so you shouldn't complain.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.2 -
popcornguess said:HampshireH said:He needs to buy you out otherwise you effectively gift him your inheritance.Put simply, he is getting the benefit of 100% of the house for as long as he wants with no benefit of any kind going to you until some vague time in the future when he may decide he doesn't need it any more...You have no ability to borrow against your share of the property and no way to benefit from it. Any talk about growth in the future value is of no help to you now, and is meaningless as he may never sell...
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popcornguess said:HampshireH said:He needs to buy you out otherwise you effectively gift him your inheritance.
If he mortgages & gets the deeds changed to his name only. You own nothing.
Mortgage company may not like 2 names on the deeds & only one person taking a mortgage.
Simple answer is he buys your half of the house & then he can do what he wants. You then have a nice sum of money to spend as you want.
If he say's no. Then say as you own half, then you are moving in to your half. That will focus his mind.Life in the slow lane3 -
He pays you half the value of the property now or the property is put up for sale and you split the proceeds. Otherwise you're effectively "lending" him your inheritance with no agreement on when this would be repaid."We act as though comfort and luxury are the chief requirements of life, when all that we need to make us happy is something to be enthusiastic about” – Albert Einstein4
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silvercar said:Add to my previous post,
Is he paying you rent on his half of the house? Or is he living rent free on your half, borrowing money against your equity and telling everyone he is paying all the mortgage, so you shouldn't complain.0 -
Absolute madness, I thought at first the initial responses on this thread was everyone being pessimistic... obviously the brother was planning on taking out the mortgage to buy the OP out... right? Then I see:
Absolutely mental. Honestly words can not describe how I feel about this (well they could but I expect they would be against MSE's code of conduct).popcornguess said:Caz3121 said:popcornguess said:my brother wants to mortgage the full house in his name and pay it back himself without me.
As others have said, this is obviously not in your interest. He should be taking a mortgage on half the house to buy you out while thanking his lucky stars you haven't decided to live in, nor charge rent, on a property you own half of.
Most lenders require any parties on the deeds to be parties on the mortgage, so I expect you'll probably end up being roped in to being on the mortgage as well, where you would also become severally liable for the payments... it just gets messier and messier...Know what you don't5 -
An alternative if your brother refuses to buy you out. Let him know that you will be renting out your part of the property and will be looking for a suitable tenant to share the house with him."We act as though comfort and luxury are the chief requirements of life, when all that we need to make us happy is something to be enthusiastic about” – Albert Einstein5
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popcornguess said:silvercar said:Add to my previous post,
Is he paying you rent on his half of the house? Or is he living rent free on your half, borrowing money against your equity and telling everyone he is paying all the mortgage, so you shouldn't complain.
if you have any plans to buy your own place becoming a joint owner (rather than sell and split the proceeds) was a terrible mistake because a) you have lost your first time buyer status and b) while you remain a joint owner any purchase you make will cost you an extra 3% in stamp duty.
If your mother is so keen on this and you plan to stay put, then you might like to suggest an alternative solution, you gift your share to your brother and in return she make you a joint tenant of her house. There may be capital gains tax to pay for you on any increase in value of your share since the death of the testator but at least you would own half a house that you are actually living in.2 -
How long has he been able to live there rent free?
Some would argue he owes you half the current value PLUS backdated rent arrears at 50% market rates😉
Please don't let your family mug you off for more than they already have.
There's being generous, and there's being taken advantage of. IMO that line's been crossed.
Don't let them guilt trip you into further generosity.
However, Are you paying your Mum a decent "keep"?How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)3 -
Just to add, if you just give away your half on a verbal agreement, and his marriage breaks down, would his wife not be entitled to half of the house, as a marital home/asset? If anything unfortunate should happen to your brother, would it not become his wife's house?
If you don't understand any of this, you should not agree to anything until you have sought legal advice.1
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