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I agree with telling your partner the exact amount, it's really not going to work if you are trying to cut back and she isn't or doesn't know why.
I think you've made a great start with your SOA, now you need to do some work making sure it's accurate (unless you've already gone through the last six months, ideally a year of accounts. It sounds like a massive task, but you get into the swing of it and it's a good way to learn and reflect what you spend on) and keeping a track of your spend against each line until you have things under control.
I think you need to stay under your budget and make whatever over payments you can to the debt (starting with the 44% interest one), until the end of your partner's mat leave, maybe by selling things you don't need, etc, then when she goes back to work, you'll have a decent chunk of extra income to throw at the debt every month. With all the busy-ness of having two children, the time to being debt-free will disappear in no time
There's a board on here about fairly easy ways to bring extra money in - a good way is switching current accounts if you haven't done that recently.Statement of Affairs (SOA) link: https://www.lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.phpFor free, non-judgemental debt advice, try: Stepchange or National Debtline. Beware fee charging companies with similar names.2 -
My comments are by the categories on your SOA.BlueManc10 said:Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance SheetHousehold InformationNumber of adults in household........... 2Number of children in household......... 2Number of cars owned.................... 1 *This is on financeMonthly Income DetailsMonthly income after tax................ 2514Partners monthly income after tax....... 750 * This will increase to £1600Benefits................................ 142Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 3406Monthly Expense DetailsMortgage................................ 736Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 200Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 166Electricity............................. 90Gas..................................... 70Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 52.67Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 60 I’m assuming 2 phones, are they still in contract? As soon as they are not look to the likes of Smarty, Giff Gaff etc. for a sim only deal. I only pay £8 a month.TV Licence.............................. 13.25Satellite/Cable TV...................... 100 still in contract? If not you need to shop around I’m paying half that for land line, broadband and satellite tv.Internet Services....................... 0Groceries etc. ......................... 300Clothing................................ 50Petrol/diesel........................... 80Road tax................................ 14.43Car Insurance........................... 87.58 understand that you are a new driver but as soon as you can shop around.Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 50Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 500 *this will increase to £1000Other child related expenses............ 100 what does this include?Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0 nothing?? Do you not go to the optician, prescriptions etc.Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0Buildings insurance..................... 19 does these include contents? If not then you need to get contents insurance with accidental damage as a matter of priority.Contents insurance...................... 0 see aboveLife assurance ......................... 19Other insurance......................... 0Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 30Haircuts................................ 30Entertainment........................... 100 what does this cover?Holiday................................. 0Emergency fund.......................... 0[b]you need an emergency fund what will you do if a washing machine breaks down? Your car needs a lot of work?Total monthly expenses.................. 2867.93AssetsCash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 250000Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 12000Other assets............................ 0Total Assets............................ 262000Secured & HP DebtsDescription....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 196000...(736)......2.6[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 196000....-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured DebtsDescription....................Debt......Monthly...APRCredit Card....................6718......258.......26.6Credit Card....................6584......112.......26.49Credit Card....................3729......89........24.9Store Card.....................1200......79........44.9Store Card.....................767.......44........24.9Credit Card....................620.......25........24.6[b]Total unsecured debts..........19618.....607.......-Monthly Budget SummaryTotal monthly income.................... 3,406Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,667.93Available for debt repayments........... 738.07Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 607Amount left after debt repayments....... 131.07Do you really have this left at the end of the month??Personal Balance Sheet SummaryTotal assets (things you own)........... 262,000Total HP & Secured debt................. -196,000Total Unsecured debt.................... -19,618Net Assets.............................. 46,382Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.Have a look at Martins guides on each category to see where you can save money.Also look at the Debtfree Challenges thread on this page and the Boost Your Income thread for little ways to get some extra pennies to throw at the debt or save for the emergency fund.I’m assuming that you are shopping around for food. Aldi, Lidl, Tesco etc. Check out the Old Style board for tips.3 -
This may sound silly but is it worth taking out a 0% purchase/balance transfer card and then paying off the store card with this? As then the interest rate will be lower and I could pay off less?
Also I could then pay this off interest free in the time required and just pay minimum on other debts and then do the same again etc?2 -
It's not silly, but you need to do the maths to make sure it's definitely financially better eg a 4% transfer charge for a debt that is at 45% that you pay off within a month doesn't make any sense.BlueManc10 said:This may sound silly but is it worth taking out a 0% purchase/balance transfer card and then paying off the store card with this? As then the interest rate will be lower and I could pay off less?
Also I could then pay this off interest free in the time required and just pay minimum on other debts and then do the same again etc?
You'd then consider whether it's better to pay the 0% card at a rate that pays it off by the end of the 0% offer or pay the minimums on that card and over pay on a card that's charging you interest.
For example, if the 0% offer card charges 25% at the end of the offer period and you also have a card that is currently charging 25%, it makes sense to over pay the one that is charging now, because you may get another 0% offer.
Basically you need to think: what reduces the overall amount I pay on the debt. This could be transferring to lower interest cards/loans and using the freed up money to overpay, or just mean paying the debt with the highest interest first. Note, that it doesn't mean transfering to a lower rate that you pay over a longer time - that is a mistake a lot of people make (usually as a consolidation loan), but that actually overall costs more.
If you use 0% offers, you have to make sure you're actually reducing the debt and not just kicking the can down the road until there are no more 0% offers and you're back paying interest on debt.Statement of Affairs (SOA) link: https://www.lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.phpFor free, non-judgemental debt advice, try: Stepchange or National Debtline. Beware fee charging companies with similar names.2 -
Have you missed out any income? You state in your opening post income of 75k but your figures show a lot less.0
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Apologies if you have already checked but have you been on all the benefit calculators to see if you are entitled to a tiny bit of u credit, tax free childcare etc. It's soo soo hard paying that much childcare and very de motivating I know. Every little bit you manage to pay off will make it easier. Try and work together on it otherwise everything you try and do and every tiny saving you manage could be undone in five minutes because your partner is unaware. Pennies make pounds eventually it will.come.down it you keep trying. And maybe you will be better when free childcare starts when eldest is 3. Good luckJan 18 Joint debts 35,213
Mortgage Jan 18- 77224 nov 25- just over 64k
June 25 Debts in my name were £5170. Now 7150 (Nov 25)2 -
I read it that he meant that when his OH goes back to work they will have a combined salary of £75kcomeandgo said:Have you missed out any income? You state in your opening post income of 75k but your figures show a lot less.1 -
This is correct as I'm due a pay rise imminently but my SOA shows my current salary and my partner's maternityflipflopflo said:
I read it that he meant that when his OH goes back to work they will have a combined salary of £75kcomeandgo said:Have you missed out any income? You state in your opening post income of 75k but your figures show a lot less.1 -
Thank you for this makes sense and will take note.kimwp said:
It's not silly, but you need to do the maths to make sure it's definitely financially better eg a 4% transfer charge for a debt that is at 45% that you pay off within a month doesn't make any sense.BlueManc10 said:This may sound silly but is it worth taking out a 0% purchase/balance transfer card and then paying off the store card with this? As then the interest rate will be lower and I could pay off less?
Also I could then pay this off interest free in the time required and just pay minimum on other debts and then do the same again etc?
You'd then consider whether it's better to pay the 0% card at a rate that pays it off by the end of the 0% offer or pay the minimums on that card and over pay on a card that's charging you interest.
For example, if the 0% offer card charges 25% at the end of the offer period and you also have a card that is currently charging 25%, it makes sense to over pay the one that is charging now, because you may get another 0% offer.
Basically you need to think: what reduces the overall amount I pay on the debt. This could be transferring to lower interest cards/loans and using the freed up money to overpay, or just mean paying the debt with the highest interest first. Note, that it doesn't mean transfering to a lower rate that you pay over a longer time - that is a mistake a lot of people make (usually as a consolidation loan), but that actually overall costs more.
If you use 0% offers, you have to make sure you're actually reducing the debt and not just kicking the can down the road until there are no more 0% offers and you're back paying interest on debt.0 -
Couple of points.
If you can for just two consecutive months make some decent repayments...ie payments of £1k plus for 2 to 3 months then in my experience you will get 0% balance transfer offers from your existing cards. This will save you thousands over the course of the year.
Secondly, this could very very quickly spiral totally out of control. Interest rates could rise again...you're closer than you think to being in a real mess.
In the next 2 to 3 months how can you make a dent in this...then you turn the tide...the interest free offers come and the debt goes down.
If you don't then you're going to be spending 600 a month every month to the banks in interest alone that would make a huge difference to your kids lives.
Not trying to scare you but you're at that sort of tipping point where it can become unmanageable quite quickly.
March 2020 - 21k of debt; September 2020 - 14k of debt. Debt free target date September 2021
Diary of paying down debt whilst living abroad:https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6181237/5-000-miles-and-even-more-pounds#latest1
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