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Survivor Pension/Widows Pension if cohabiting/remarrying
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C0nfused
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In anticipation that in the future I may cohabit and/or remarry, I've been trying to find out if there will be an affect to any of the widows pensions I receive. It seems to be a minefield, and I'm getting contradicting information.
It seems wrong to me that survivor pension benefits are lost when cohabiting/remarrying. People who have lost their spouse should not then have to face a choice between financial stability and love. I do feel that the fact that a number of pensions have updated their policy on this and the widows pension is paid for life, indicates a move in the right direction but this should be across the board. It should also be clear and easy to find out if a pension has this clause in.
I am sure that this affects a lot of people, is this something that is being reviewed, challenged?
It seems wrong to me that survivor pension benefits are lost when cohabiting/remarrying. People who have lost their spouse should not then have to face a choice between financial stability and love. I do feel that the fact that a number of pensions have updated their policy on this and the widows pension is paid for life, indicates a move in the right direction but this should be across the board. It should also be clear and easy to find out if a pension has this clause in.
I am sure that this affects a lot of people, is this something that is being reviewed, challenged?
June 2016 Wins: £64 Argos Voucher :j July 2016 Wins: £25 Cash :j
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C0nfused said:In anticipation that in the future I may cohabit and/or remarry, I've been trying to find out if there will be an affect to any of the widows pensions I receive. It seems to be a minefield, and I'm getting contradicting information.
It seems wrong to me that survivor pension benefits are lost when cohabiting/remarrying. People who have lost their spouse should not then have to face a choice between financial stability and love. I do feel that the fact that a number of pensions have updated their policy on this and the widows pension is paid for life, indicates a move in the right direction but this should be across the board. It should also be clear and easy to find out if a pension has this clause in.
I am sure that this affects a lot of people, is this something that is being reviewed, challenged?
If you don't get straight answers (or any answers!), there's free help readily available to extract the necessary information: https://www.moneyhelper.org.uk/en/pensions-and-retirement/pension-problems
This provision has been challenged, with some success, but a recent case has highlighted how difficult it is for such challenges to succeed: https://www.lawgazette.co.uk/news/police-widow-pension-scheme-survives-human-rights-challenge/5114657.articleGoogling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0 -
Marcon said:C0nfused said:In anticipation that in the future I may cohabit and/or remarry, I've been trying to find out if there will be an affect to any of the widows pensions I receive. It seems to be a minefield, and I'm getting contradicting information.
It seems wrong to me that survivor pension benefits are lost when cohabiting/remarrying. People who have lost their spouse should not then have to face a choice between financial stability and love. I do feel that the fact that a number of pensions have updated their policy on this and the widows pension is paid for life, indicates a move in the right direction but this should be across the board. It should also be clear and easy to find out if a pension has this clause in.
I am sure that this affects a lot of people, is this something that is being reviewed, challenged?
If you don't get straight answers (or any answers!), there's free help readily available to extract the necessary information: https://www.moneyhelper.org.uk/en/pensions-and-retirement/pension-problems
This provision has been challenged, with some success, but a recent case has highlighted how difficult it is for such challenges to succeed: https://www.lawgazette.co.uk/news/police-widow-pension-scheme-survives-human-rights-challenge/5114657.article
I have 4 widows pensions, the paperwork I received for 2 of them stated that I'd lose the benefit if I was to cohabit/remarry, the other 2 I didn't see anything about this and I wasn't in a good place to think about looking further into this. However, I'm in a better place now and am now finding out what position I would be if I was to remarry. I've found (ironically) that the two that I had previous information stating that I'd lose, I wouldn't. The other two.. I've been told that I would lose one of them and I could lose the other. Yet I've found the pension rules information online for one and that states that I wouldn't lose them, and there is nothing in any of the pension policy details that I can find on the other that states either way.
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I've contacted the pension providers individually (thats where I started!).Good as the rules are scheme specific. There is no one-size-fits-all rule.Yet I've found the pension rules information online for one and that states that I wouldn't lose them, and there is nothing in any of the pension policy details that I can find on the other that states either way.If its a policy, that would mean it is either drawdown or annuity. You dont lose the money with drawdown and annuity would depend on the options selected by the annuitant at purchase. You wont find that information online.
I am an Independent Financial Adviser (IFA). The comments I make are just my opinion and are for discussion purposes only. They are not financial advice and you should not treat them as such. If you feel an area discussed may be relevant to you, then please seek advice from an Independent Financial Adviser local to you.0
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