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Unfortunately, the chances of finding another job like this is minimal. I work in a specialised field and jobs are few and far between, especially ones that are quite so flexible with regards to working hours and being able to do the school run etc. Saying that, myself and my colleague who has the same job title and role both say we wouldn’t look for the same type of job if we got made redundant. I’d do anything really, as long as it paid the bills, but would struggle to achieve a similar salary in a different role though as my qualifications and experience are very specific to this job and are not overly transferable. I’d struggle with a pay cut now too.Sarahwithlove said:If you did get made redundant would you be able to find another job? I don't know what area you work in as to how easy that would be.
I have a similar dilemma myself, I don't feel like this is my forever home so am reluctant to shovel more money into it. But also don't really want to take on a bigger mortgage either which is what I would probably have to do. Part of me feels like I'm stuck here unless I get a big promotion at work (unlikely), win the lottery (never play) or fortunate enough to get an inheritance big enough (who knows??)
It is horrid when you don't feel at home in your own home though. Have you had a valuation on yours and seen a mortgage advisor to know what your potential options would be? I think if you knew whether it was feasible or not that may help.
Oh no, so sorry to hear about your kitchen, it’s so disappointing isn’t it, especially when it costs so much money! My bathroom scares me to be honest and I’m always looking up at the ceiling below to check there’s no water coming through. It constantly smells damp so I know it’s leaking somewhere.Justcrackingonwithit said:Ahhh @MeandO I recall your previous diary/posts about moving and the angst that it has caused. I'm so sorry you feel like this, it must be an awful feeling for you. I've no words of wisdom at all, but just wanted to send you a big virtual hug.
I moved into my house a few months ago, it's the first time I've lived on my own, had a horrendous break up from my ex. Saw lots of houses, but just knew this was the one. It desperately needed a new kitchen so I planned it carefully, got a kitchen fitter recommended, excellent reviews, sounded really good. He's fitted my kitchen and made such a bodged job, it's been awful. I've gone from being completely excited and can't wait to have my new kitchen to, I never want to set foot in my kitchen again.......he's been back several times but to be honest I'm at the end of my tether now and just think I need to cut my losses with it. So I kind of understand where you are coming from. It's so disheartening and upsetting.
Please try not to feel too down, although I know that's easier said than done. I think you are doing a great job, and are a real inspiration to so many people on here xx
I dropped DS to his Dad’s early doors for a sports match, he’ll be there until tomorrow now. I’ve tidied a bit, cleaned a bit and am now just having 20 minutes to myself. Yesterday was quite stressful for reasons I can’t be bothered to go so I’m enjoying this moment of calm and peace!
