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It looks like the best way to help my daughter, without creating problems for ourselves, is to loan them money to buy a house in their own right. I have tried to find information on lenders who will grant a mortgage on a property where the BoMaD are providing a loan toward the purchase of a house. The only company I know of so far is the Family Building Society. Names and reviews would be ideal if anyone knows of any.0
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It is because you are making a loan rather than a gift that is limiting the choice of lenders. If you made a gift (and you could potentially adjust your will to allow for this gift compared to siblings inheritance) then there would be more options. Also if you have a significant income you could go on the mortgage with your daughter and that would allow her to borrow more money.Willsie01 said:It looks like the best way to help my daughter, without creating problems for ourselves, is to loan them money to buy a house in their own right. I have tried to find information on lenders who will grant a mortgage on a property where the BoMaD are providing a loan toward the purchase of a house. The only company I know of so far is the Family Building Society. Names and reviews would be ideal if anyone knows of any.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.1 -
Yes, I know, but the size of gift they would need is too high to be fair to our other children. Potentially liable to IRT. Although I’d like to think that unlikely given the 7 year rule but you never know.silvercar said:
It is because you are making a loan rather than a gift that is limiting the choice of lenders. If you made a gift (and you could potentially adjust your will to allow for this gift compared to siblings inheritance) then there would be more options. Also if you have a significant income you could go on the mortgage with your daughter and that would allow her to borrow more money.Willsie01 said:It looks like the best way to help my daughter, without creating problems for ourselves, is to loan them money to buy a house in their own right. I have tried to find information on lenders who will grant a mortgage on a property where the BoMaD are providing a loan toward the purchase of a house. The only company I know of so far is the Family Building Society. Names and reviews would be ideal if anyone knows of any.
Daughter doesn’t want a gift she wants to pay us back.0 -
Paying a gift back is fine, if it is given as a gift not a loan.Willsie01 said:
Yes, I know, but the size of gift they would need is too high to be fair to our other children. Potentially liable to IRT. Although I’d like to think that unlikely given the 7 year rule but you never know.silvercar said:
It is because you are making a loan rather than a gift that is limiting the choice of lenders. If you made a gift (and you could potentially adjust your will to allow for this gift compared to siblings inheritance) then there would be more options. Also if you have a significant income you could go on the mortgage with your daughter and that would allow her to borrow more money.Willsie01 said:It looks like the best way to help my daughter, without creating problems for ourselves, is to loan them money to buy a house in their own right. I have tried to find information on lenders who will grant a mortgage on a property where the BoMaD are providing a loan toward the purchase of a house. The only company I know of so far is the Family Building Society. Names and reviews would be ideal if anyone knows of any.
Daughter doesn’t want a gift she wants to pay us back.
You can get round these problems, potentially the siblings could end up owing a small percentage of the property or that your daughter owes them some money eventually.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.0
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