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Former employer phoning up referees after employee has left

sparks_2023
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My friend has just left employment at a homecare company.
It was a mutually agreed parting of the ways.
But now the company is contacting her referees.
Anyone know what might be going on ?
She wants to make a complaint about them - regarding other issues which she would have let lie until this reference follow up kicked the hornet's nest - but has no idea who to complain to.
It was a mutually agreed parting of the ways.
But now the company is contacting her referees.
Anyone know what might be going on ?
She wants to make a complaint about them - regarding other issues which she would have let lie until this reference follow up kicked the hornet's nest - but has no idea who to complain to.
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sparks_2023 said:My friend has just left employment at a homecare company.
It was a mutually agreed parting of the ways.
But now the company is contacting her referees.
Anyone know what might be going on ?
She wants to make a complaint about them - regarding other issues which she would have let lie until this reference follow up kicked the hornet's nest - but has no idea who to complain to.
The now former employer should have contacted the referees before employing your friend.
They may now have realised their failure to do so and so want to legitimise their decision to appoint.
Was your friend entirely honest in what she said about the work she had done?
Where to lodge a complaint depends on what sort of "other issues" are involved.
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sparks_2023 said:My friend has just left employment at a homecare company.
It was a mutually agreed parting of the ways.
But now the company is contacting her referees.
Anyone know what might be going on ?
She wants to make a complaint about them - regarding other issues which she would have let lie until this reference follow up kicked the hornet's nest - but has no idea who to complain to.
How long were they employed? If it's less than two years then most of the things they might complain about will be pointless.0 -
General_Grant said:sparks_2023 said:My friend has just left employment at a homecare company.
It was a mutually agreed parting of the ways.
But now the company is contacting her referees.
Anyone know what might be going on ?
She wants to make a complaint about them - regarding other issues which she would have let lie until this reference follow up kicked the hornet's nest - but has no idea who to complain to.
The now former employer should have contacted the referees before employing your friend.
They may now have realised their failure to do so and so want to legitimise their decision to appoint.
Was your friend entirely honest in what she said about the work she had done?
Where to lodge a complaint depends on what sort of "other issues" are involved.OP - does it not depend on why the company is contacting referees and what they are saying?
The implication is that it’s a bad thing, but it really does depend on what’s been said before they launch into full complaints mode. Who has told her and what explanation was given?All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.1 -
sparks_2023 said:My friend has just left employment at a homecare company.
It was a mutually agreed parting of the ways.
But now the company is contacting her referees.
Anyone know what might be going on ?
She wants to make a complaint about them - regarding other issues which she would have let lie until this reference follow up kicked the hornet's nest - but has no idea who to complain to.
Probably best to let your friend decide what to do. You may well not have been told the full story, which means any intervention, however well meaning, could be on shaky ground.
Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0 -
General_Grant said:sparks_2023 said:My friend has just left employment at a homecare company.
It was a mutually agreed parting of the ways.
But now the company is contacting her referees.
Anyone know what might be going on ?
She wants to make a complaint about them - regarding other issues which she would have let lie until this reference follow up kicked the hornet's nest - but has no idea who to complain to.
The now former employer should have contacted the referees before employing your friend.
They may now have realised their failure to do so and so want to legitimise their decision to appoint.
Was your friend entirely honest in what she said about the work she had done?
Where to lodge a complaint depends on what sort of "other issues" are involved.
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sparks_2023 said:My friend has just left employment at a homecare company.
It was a mutually agreed parting of the ways.
But now the company is contacting her referees.
Anyone know what might be going on ?
She wants to make a complaint about them - regarding other issues which she would have let lie until this reference follow up kicked the hornet's nest - but has no idea who to complain to.
Remember, a referee has a legal duty to both parties to be honest in anything they say about the applicant. Maybe the employer feels that the referee gave inaccurate or misleading information?0
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