Debt Consolidation Load - Remortgage?

Hi all,  I'm in a bit of a debt spiral at the moment.  I've got around £27K on credit cards. I'm constantly using my overdraft (£4500) to survive.  Minimum repayments and bank charges are costing me around £700/month.  I was hoping to get a consolidation loan to reduce these monthly costs but I can't get one. 

I've spoken to my bank who are suggesting I remortgage the house.  This doesn't make sense to me as my mortgage costs will nearly double (current rate is 1.59% - new rate ~5%). 

I'm a bit stuck and any advice is appreciated. I don't understand how a consolidation loan can be rejected as it will reduce my monthly costs???
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  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,262 Forumite
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    edited 31 January 2023 at 1:13PM
    Credit cards are unsecured debt - your mortgage is secured debt. It is unforgiveable of your bank - IMO - that they are suggesting that you shift unsecured debt to secured - there is *almost* never a good reason to do this. 

    A consolidation loan is one of those things that appears to be a good idea, but rarely is. Have a little browse down the board* - there is a very recent and brutally honest thread started by someone who shared their own experiences. You will come to realise that being turned down for this at this point is probably the very best thing that could have happened, I suspect. 

    Right now, you need to stop, take a breath, put the kettle on. Then you can pat yourself on the back for having asked for help and face the situation - that IS the hardest bit for most people. Once you'd acknowledged the issue, you can start to find solutions.

    Next step - put together your SOA - statement of Affairs - you will find the link to the calculator we suggest in my signature below. You need to complete that honestly and openly, using the figures for the amounts you spend o things right now - not what you think you "might be" or "should be" spending - it needs to reflect where you are at this point. Then if you use the "format for MSE" option it will enable you to copy and paste it into a post in this thread, if you feel brave enough to do that? I promise we won't judge - we might tell you that you're spending too much here, or (oddly!) not enough there, and we might question some of your choices, but it comes from a position of wanting to help, so bear that in mind.

    You might also want to consider asking the forum team for a change of user name if - as I suspect - your current one tells us a little more about you than you might actually want being on a public forum once you start adding further detail? 

    Everything is solveable - as one of our regulars on here sometimes says "It's only money" - and it IS. You can sort this out - you've already taken the first step to doing this, but risking the roof over your head is NOT the way forwards. 


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  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,262 Forumite
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    🎉 MORTGAGE FREE (First time!) 30/09/2016 🎉 And now we go again…New mortgage taken 01/09/23 🏡
    Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
    Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
    £100k barrier broken 1/4/25
    SOA CALCULATOR (for DFW newbies): SOA Calculator
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  • [font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]

    Household Information[/b]
    Number of adults in household...........  2
    Number of children in household.........  2
    Number of cars owned....................  1[b]

    Monthly Income Details[/b]
    Monthly income after tax................ 3500
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0[b]
    Total monthly income.................... 3500[/b][b]

    Monthly Expense Details[/b]
    Mortgage................................ 760
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 355
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 260
    Electricity............................. 160
    Gas..................................... 110
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 80
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 110
    TV Licence.............................. 14
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 74
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 600
    Clothing................................ 0
    Petrol/diesel........................... 80
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 40
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 26
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 80
    Buildings insurance..................... 10
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 60
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0
    Haircuts................................ 0
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0[b]
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2819[/b]
    [b]

    Assets[/b]
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 250000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 20000
    Other assets............................ 0[b]
    Total Assets............................ 270000[/b]
    [b]

    Secured & HP Debts[/b]
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 122000...(760)......1.59
    Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 22000....(355)......3.99[b]
    Total secured & HP debts...... 144000....-.........-   [/b]

    [b]Unsecured Debts[/b]
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    MBNA...........................12000.....350.......20.9
    Barclaycard....................7400......210.......22.9
    Virgin.........................7200......70........0
    Klarna.........................1000......110.......0[b]
    Total unsecured debts..........27600.....740.......-  [/b]

    [b]
    Monthly Budget Summary[/b]
    Total monthly income.................... 3,500
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,819
    Available for debt repayments........... 681
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 740[b]
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -59[/b]

    [b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]
    Total assets (things you own)........... 270,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -144,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -27,600[b]
    Net Assets.............................. 98,400[/b]

    [i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]
  • No one ever has a haircut?

    Partner doesn't work?
    No Child Benefit?
    How old are the children?
    Unless they are 2 strapping teenagers £600 for groceries is way too much.
    If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.
  • Thanks for your comment

    Partner doesn't work?  She does but her money is spent on her & kids. 
    No Child Benefit? It goes to my wife
    How old are the children? 11 & 13
    Unless they are 2 strapping teenagers £600 for groceries is way too much.  Might be something I need to look at...
  • katsu
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    Do you not both share your household costs? If the children are yours, it seems odd that her income isn't covering household expenses too.

    Have you been able to go through the situation with her? Does she realise that, for example, it would really help to reduce your monthly gas and electricity spend?  Do you have a smart meter? 

    Cancel the satellite TV and just keep Internet. Can you get the mobiles down? 
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  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,262 Forumite
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    edited 31 January 2023 at 4:02PM
    [font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]

    Household Information[/b]
    Number of adults in household...........  2
    Number of children in household.........  2
    Number of cars owned....................  1 this is your car, so your expenses, yes?[b]

    Monthly Income Details[/b]
    Monthly income after tax................ 3500
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0 OK - you've explained about this 
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0[b]
    Total monthly income.................... 3500[/b][b]

    Monthly Expense Details[/b]
    Mortgage................................ 760
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 355 Is this car finance or something else?
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 260 
    Electricity............................. 160
    Gas..................................... 110
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 80
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 110 This is extortionate! Why so high?
    TV Licence.............................. 14 
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 74 This is high for someone in debt - does it include internet? 
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 600 Yes - as already n=mentioned, very high. Presumably your partner contributes something to this too, this is just your share of the spend?
    Clothing................................ 0 This isn't realistic - at least you need to budget "socks & pants" money.
    Petrol/diesel........................... 80
    Road tax................................ 0 Zero rated vehicle?
    Car Insurance........................... 40 
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 26 Does this cover your annual spending? (It might if servicing is included in any deal you have?)
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0 
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 80
    Buildings insurance..................... 10
    Contents insurance...................... 0 Tel me you do have this and have just missed it out for some reason? If not it needs sorting immediately - you can't afford NOT to have it! 
    Life assurance ......................... 60
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0 I assume you are spending in this area so you have to start budgeting for this.
    Haircuts................................ 0 Never?
    Entertainment........................... 0 Never a quick coffee while out and about, or a night out with friends? No takeaways?
    Holiday................................. 0 Again - you never even go for a weekend away or a trip to visit family perhaps? 
    Emergency fund.......................... 0 You need to start putting something away for this[b]
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2819[/b]
    [b]

    Assets[/b]
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 250000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 20000
    Other assets............................ 0[b]
    Total Assets............................ 270000[/b]
    [b]

    Secured & HP Debts[/b]
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 122000...(760)......1.59
    Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 22000....(355)......3.99[b]
    Total secured & HP debts...... 144000....-.........-   [/b]

    [b]Unsecured Debts[/b]
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    MBNA...........................12000.....350.......20.9
    Barclaycard....................7400......210.......22.9
    Virgin.........................7200......70........0 
    Klarna.........................1000......110.......0[b]
    Total unsecured debts..........27600.....740.......-  [/b]

    [b]
    Monthly Budget Summary[/b]
    Total monthly income.................... 3,500
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,819
    Available for debt repayments........... 681
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 740[b]
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -59[/b]

    [b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]
    Total assets (things you own)........... 270,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -144,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -27,600[b]
    Net Assets.............................. 98,400[/b]

    [i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]
    OK - clearly at the moment there is a shortfall but it's a relatively low one. 

    I think we need a little more information on how the household spending works - your partner and her children live with you, yes? What contribution does she put in to the household costs - as obviously even your share of the grocery spending is quite high, your utilities bills look to be in the region of what we might expect for the household, you have a TV package being paid for etc, and council tax...The car I assume is yours, and you bear all the costs? Apologies, but your wording is a little unclear - are the children in the household your children, or are they your partners and you are now essentially treating them as your own?

    On the debts - you mentioned an overdraft before that I don't think is shown in your SOA? 
    On the face of it, and with a few small tweaks elsewhere in the budget (reducing the cost of the mobile bill, TV Package and grocery spending for a start) you can make up the shortfall you have there - but when the Virgin & Klarna debt starts attracting interest you're going to be making far less impact on the totals. 

    I think subject to the answers to the questions already raised, a Debt Management Plan might be the way forwards for you. If you go this route then we would usually suggest that you stop paying the unsecured debt immediately and allow that to default before starting the DMP. The surplus that would otherwise have been going to debt should then be set aside to build an emergency fund as you will need this going forwards. 

    Regardless - I suggest that you open a new basic bank account with a bank that you do NOT have any debt with - and work to get your budget and spending into a position where you are living within your means. 

     Have you established the cause of the debt, allowing that your general spending when debt payments are removed from the equation seems to fall within your income - has that not always been the case? 
    🎉 MORTGAGE FREE (First time!) 30/09/2016 🎉 And now we go again…New mortgage taken 01/09/23 🏡
    Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
    Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
    £100k barrier broken 1/4/25
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  • fatbelly
    fatbelly Posts: 22,748 Forumite
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    This is close to being do-able. Just throwing the child benefit into the mix would balance things.

    Shame you're paying £355 per month for use of a car. Anywhere near the halfway point of that agreement?

    P.S. Bank advice was rubbish as usual. Worse than rubbish. Positively dangerous.
  • enthusiasticsaver
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    Thanks for your comment

    Partner doesn't work?  She does but her money is spent on her & kids. 
    No Child Benefit? It goes to my wife
    How old are the children? 11 & 13
    Unless they are 2 strapping teenagers £600 for groceries is way too much.  Might be something I need to look at...
    So your partners salary is spent on her and her kids and she does not contribute at all to bills or groceries? That is unfair and I would change that straight away regardless of whether the children are both of yours or just hers.  Is it a joint mortgage and is the house in just your name or both your names?  

    A consolidation loan is not the answer and you will not get one anyway due to the high level of  unsecured debt you have and you will fail affordability checks given the cost of debt you already have.  Are Virgin and Klarna not charging interest and if they are on a deal when do they expire?  The fact you are paying high interest on the other cards suggests your credit record is not good enough to get a loan at a decent rate anyway.  You need to keep a careful eye on your budget and either increase income or get your partner to start contributing. 

    I would tackle the overdraft first as that will be the most expensive.  Most charge 40% interest now. You have over stretched with the car.  If you only spend £80 on fuel do you really need it?  

    There are lots of gaps in the soa but similarly groceries are high.  Getting a proper budget in place is the first step accounting for everything you do spend and saving for emergencies and tackling the overdraft.  Are you able to get a 0% money transfer card to pay off the overdraft? 
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