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New Job refused time off for my wedding
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TBagpuss said:I agree that a miscommunication is most likely. Does the app allow you to add any notes, and if so, did you note that you had already speaken to the lie manager who hadconfirmed that the dates would be honoured as it's a pre-existing committment?
I agree that if it is agenuine zero hours contract youdon't *have* to accept hours offered, but I think given the timescales you can afford to wait until your manager is bck and then address it with her.I’m going to wait until I start the job and speak to my line manager when she’s back , sadly there’s no option to add notes in the app . I’m still a bit bemused by the fact they say I have to work certain hours and weekends yet I’m in zero hours0 -
OhSoCold said:TBagpuss said:I agree that a miscommunication is most likely. Does the app allow you to add any notes, and if so, did you note that you had already speaken to the lie manager who hadconfirmed that the dates would be honoured as it's a pre-existing committment?
I agree that if it is agenuine zero hours contract youdon't *have* to accept hours offered, but I think given the timescales you can afford to wait until your manager is bck and then address it with her.I’m going to wait until I start the job and speak to my line manager when she’s back , sadly there’s no option to add notes in the app . I’m still a bit bemused by the fact they say I have to work certain hours and weekends yet I’m in zero hours
In a way the same applies to your holiday. You could simply decline work for those dates and whatever paid holiday you have accrued would remain available to take at another time (of the employer's choosing). But again, that might affect how much work you are offered. It is supply and demand really, if they have plenty of suitable people to call on they will favour those that are the most accommodating. If they are short of staff or if you have particular skills that they value they will be more inclined to accept your limited availability.1 -
If you are genuinely zero hours with the expectations around hours that you describe, I’d probably be starting this job but looking for a different ine anyway.
Because if that’s what they want/need that’s what they want to they should either give you a 24 hour contract or accept there are times you say no I can’t do that.
Seems to me the company is wanting the best of both worlds without any of the obligations and you lose out both ways. No job security. No contracted terms. No options for flexibility.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.0 -
elsien said:If you are genuinely zero hours with the expectations around hours that you describe, I’d probably be starting this job but looking for a different ine anyway.
Because if that’s what they want/need that’s what they want to they should either give you a 24 hour contract or accept there are times you say no I can’t do that.
Seems to me the company is wanting the best of both worlds without any of the obligations and you lose out both ways. No job security. No contracted terms. No options for flexibility.When I checked it I’d been booked to work every single weekend in January despite being told I’d have one weekend in four off . When I emailed to query this she informed me that she is short staffed as still has a vacant position to fill and I’ll be working every single weekend until she has a full working team0 -
Undervalued said:OhSoCold said:TBagpuss said:I agree that a miscommunication is most likely. Does the app allow you to add any notes, and if so, did you note that you had already speaken to the lie manager who hadconfirmed that the dates would be honoured as it's a pre-existing committment?
I agree that if it is agenuine zero hours contract youdon't *have* to accept hours offered, but I think given the timescales you can afford to wait until your manager is bck and then address it with her.I’m going to wait until I start the job and speak to my line manager when she’s back , sadly there’s no option to add notes in the app . I’m still a bit bemused by the fact they say I have to work certain hours and weekends yet I’m in zero hours
In a way the same applies to your holiday. You could simply decline work for those dates and whatever paid holiday you have accrued would remain available to take at another time (of the employer's choosing). But again, that might affect how much work you are offered. It is supply and demand really, if they have plenty of suitable people to call on they will favour those that are the most accommodating. If they are short of staff or if you have particular skills that they value they will be more inclined to accept your limited availability.1 -
Utter madness to cancel your wedding or quit the job.
Just wait until the line manager comes back in and resubmit0 -
penners324 said:Utter madness to cancel your wedding or quit the job.
Just wait until the line manager comes back in and resubmit0 -
Until you see your contract then you don't know what they are expecting of you. And you haven't agreed to actually take the job.
If your wedding is actually Easter weekend I suspect that others already working for them have put in their requests for time off so the newbies are expected to cover their absences. Again - if the manager said you could have the time then it will be up to them to sort this with HR. The alternative is for you to work until the end of March and then hand in your notice.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe, Old Style Money Saving and Pensions boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Brie said:Until you see your contract then you don't know what they are expecting of you. And you haven't agreed to actually take the job.
If your wedding is actually Easter weekend I suspect that others already working for them have put in their requests for time off so the newbies are expected to cover their absences. Again - if the manager said you could have the time then it will be up to them to sort this with HR. The alternative is for you to work until the end of March and then hand in your notice.Well as it happens I’ll now be declining the job as I’ve today received an email from my line manager informing me my hours are being reduced by six a week in January due to the quiet time and the months rota was attached .When I checked it I’d been booked to work every single weekend in January despite being told I’d have one weekend in four off . When I emailed to query this she informed me that she is short staffed as still has a vacant position to fill and I’ll be working every single weekend until she has a full working team0
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