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Ex has left job and now has ‘nil’ CMS to pay?


I raised a complaint and said that he must be living off something, he hasn’t just left his job with nothing to go to or how would he eat/live. Apparently he isn’t earning and also isn’t on benefits. I phoned again yesterday and they said they have written to him asking for him to provide evidence as to how he is supporting himself if he allegedly has no form of income to support his cost of living, but he hasn’t replied. Is there anything else they can do? Can the check with HMRC/ Benefits to see if he is working or claiming or does this automatically get updated if/ when he starts work or claims benefits?
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Is there any chance he is being financially supported by a partner or relative?
CMS will be making checks with DWP/HMRC for benefit claims but it can take time for the records to show the claim being “in payment”My ex did the same thing for a while; was supposedly being supported by relatives so didn’t make a JSA claim. He knew from the years previous that payments would be deducted direct from his benefit so did all he could to avoid claiming.The way the assessment for CMS works is all based on the PP’s earnings so if they aren’t earnings an income and have no relevant benefit in-payment, there is. Irving to base an assessment on. Meaning no child support payment due.0 -
If he has no earnings then he has no income and the correct amount to pay is 'nil' - it's fairly typical for someone who leaves a job not to have any income for a period.
He may well have savings that he is living off, especially if he isn't claiming benefits it suggests he probably does. But that's not income.
If he claims benefits CMS get automatically updated (it may take a while to filter through the system but the award should be from the date he started claiming). I don't think that a new employer does get automatically added (I could be wrong) but it's his responsibility to report a change in circumstances - if its PAYE then I think they do check to see what he is earning tallies with what he has claimed.
If he starts self-employment its rather more complicated as there won't be any tax record until he submits his first self-assessment (which could be the end of 2023) and they have to go on what he tells them.0 -
jjj1980 said:Is there any chance he is being financially supported by a partner or relative?
CMS will be making checks with DWP/HMRC for benefit claims but it can take time for the records to show the claim being “in payment”My ex did the same thing for a while; was supposedly being supported by relatives so didn’t make a JSA claim. He knew from the years previous that payments would be deducted direct from his benefit so did all he could to avoid claiming.The way the assessment for CMS works is all based on the PP’s earnings so if they aren’t earnings an income and have no relevant benefit in-payment, there is. Irving to base an assessment on. Meaning no child support payment due.0 -
Has he got a new partner who is working? My friend's ex did that one. After redundancy he became a stay at home Dad to his new wife's child from her first marriage and remained not working until his 2 son's with my friend were adults, so didn't pay any maintenance.0
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I'm guessing he very rarely sees his daughter & birthday & christmas presents rarely exist. I am afraid that this is what "they" do. Well some that really don't have any sense of responsibility. Some do actually pay over the odds & are even involved in their childrens life. But some of them seem to be able to turn off their children like turning off a tap. Sorry you have got stuck with one like that. I hope you will come to realise like me that actually you are better off not being in any way dependent on him. It worked wonders for me (once I hammered down expenses).
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tightauldgit said:jjj1980 said:Is there any chance he is being financially supported by a partner or relative?
CMS will be making checks with DWP/HMRC for benefit claims but it can take time for the records to show the claim being “in payment”My ex did the same thing for a while; was supposedly being supported by relatives so didn’t make a JSA claim. He knew from the years previous that payments would be deducted direct from his benefit so did all he could to avoid claiming.The way the assessment for CMS works is all based on the PP’s earnings so if they aren’t earnings an income and have no relevant benefit in-payment, there is. Irving to base an assessment on. Meaning no child support payment due.0 -
They phoned me yesterday evening and said he hasn’t responded to their letter by the deadline but there is nothing they can do. He has no job, he has no benefits so they can’t even collect the arrears he owes. It’s wholly unfair but I will just have to accept it I suppose and move on.Just a single mum, working full time, bit of a nutcase, but mostly sensible, wanting to be Mortgage free by 2035 or less!0
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I disagree that it’s a trivial amount when your income is likely only to be £77 a week and is a rate for a single adult WITHOUT children. That’s very close to destitution.Real single adults without children don’t pay it. So a non resident parent is not their equal.There is no such thing as a non resident parent on the benefit system so their needs can never be met. Clearly they have costs a single person without children does not have.If he did have his kids say, two days a week on this income would their poverty when with him not be absolute ?As the NAO says, ‘it was never Intended that people on such low incomes should pay it’
In 2023 it will be 25 years:-‘’This is compounded by outdated minimum income thresholds for the payment of child maintenance which were set in 1998. Unlike many countries, the UK has no “self-support” reserve factored into calculations; instead, minimum income thresholds for payment are set out in legislation which is now twenty years out of date. There has been no adjustment to take into account inflation over that period. This means paying parents are no longer able to maintain the standard of living they were initially intended (in law) to have and many face financial hardship.‘’
So for these fathers things have actually gone backwards. That’s not progress towards ending poverty.
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badmemory said:I'm guessing he very rarely sees his daughter & birthday & christmas presents rarely exist. I am afraid that this is what "they" do. Well some that really don't have any sense of responsibility. Some do actually pay over the odds & are even involved in their childrens life. But some of them seem to be able to turn off their children like turning off a tap. Sorry you have got stuck with one like that. I hope you will come to realise like me that actually you are better off not being in any way dependent on him. It worked wonders for me (once I hammered down expenses).1
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Twixty3 said:I disagree that it’s a trivial amount when your income is likely only to be £77 a week and is a rate for a single adult WITHOUT children. That’s very close to destitution.Real single adults without children don’t pay it. So a non resident parent is not their equal.There is no such thing as a non resident parent on the benefit system so their needs can never be met. Clearly they have costs a single person without children does not have.If he did have his kids say, two days a week on this income would their poverty when with him not be absolute ?As the NAO says, ‘it was never Intended that people on such low incomes should pay it’
In 2023 it will be 25 years:-‘’This is compounded by outdated minimum income thresholds for the payment of child maintenance which were set in 1998. Unlike many countries, the UK has no “self-support” reserve factored into calculations; instead, minimum income thresholds for payment are set out in legislation which is now twenty years out of date. There has been no adjustment to take into account inflation over that period. This means paying parents are no longer able to maintain the standard of living they were initially intended (in law) to have and many face financial hardship.‘’
So for these fathers things have actually gone backwards. That’s not progress towards ending poverty.
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