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Startingagain25
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Hello all,
I went bankrupt July this year and have just received an email from the OR asking for contact details for family members.
I went bankrupt July this year and have just received an email from the OR asking for contact details for family members.
My bank account shows transfers of £2100 and 2400 in the 6 months preceding but this was paying back for help to buy furniture for my new house before I got my salary. My total bankruptcy was 35k - mainly old debt sold to companies like Pra group/Cabot etc. I am on an nt tax ipa only.
I just wanted to know from other’s experiences if they contact all family members and try to get money back from them? (I haven’t told anyone that I am bankrupt and would like to try and keep it that way)
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I think they would check on large amounts like that.
My interview was face to face..doesn't happen much now.
The examiner looked at my bank statements for anything that jumped out0 -
Hi, here is some information about that from StepChange -
https://www.stepchange.org/debt-info/bankruptcy-family-friends-loans.aspx
Scroll down to "If you've paid money back to someone before bankruptcy".
and from Citizens Advice here -
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/debt-and-money/debt-solutions/bankruptcy/check-the-rules-after-you-go-bankrupt/
Scroll down to 'Check if you followed the rules before you went bankrupt"
I think the best thing would be to contact the OR to discuss this because it's something that needs to be properly explained. If you don't understand anything, or you want more information, then it's always best to contact the OR.Please note - taken from the Forum Rules and amended for my own personal use (with thanks) : It is up to you to investigate, check, double-check and check yet again before you make any decisions or take any action based on any information you glean from any of my posts. Although I do carry out careful research before posting and never intend to mislead or supply out-of-date or incorrect information, please do not rely 100% on what you are reading. Verify everything in order to protect yourself as you are responsible for any action you consequently take.0 -
Thank you for your replies,
I have had confirmation that they are writing to my family to check that the money was given for the reason stated.Not sure if they will ask for it back or not (sent in October 21 and bankrupt July 22) with lots of other incoming and outgoings from same family members before and after.Really didn’t want them to worry and I feel a right failure now ☹️0 -
These payments are "preferences" as you paid family members back in preference to other creditors. The legislation allows for the OR to claim these payments back from your family members as all creditors should be treated equally. The OR will write to them with this claim, hence asking for their contact details.0
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If it was paying back a loan to family members first then that’s not fair to other creditors0
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