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Guarantor for loan

nolastchance
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A family member has asked me to be a guarantor to enable them to get a loan. What are the risks for me if I say yes.
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You will be responsible for paying it back if they fail to do so (which is quite likely - it has been seen time and time again on these boards)
If they require a guarantor they are probably not a good credit risk, so the loan company puts all the risk on you.
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mr_stripey said:You will be responsible for paying it back if they fail to do so (which is quite likely - it has been seen time and time again on these boards)
If they require a guarantor they are probably not a good credit risk, so the loan company puts all the risk on you.
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If they don’t pay the loan you will have to pay it so you need to be able to afford to do that.
It will most likely reduce your borrowing power, as the loan will most likely be taken into account when assessing your income and commitments.
If the family member stops paying the loan and you have to take over paying this, how will you feel about this ? It can create a lot of bad feeling.
How will you feel if they stop paying, but go on an expensive holiday, or a spending spree?
Needing a guarantor, means the loan company don’t think your relative is a good risk, so are you happy to guarantee the loan knowing that a company who is in the business of loaning money thinks there could be problems ?
I personally wouldn’t do it, and I think you will get a lot of answers that will say the same.
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If they need to borrow money you might as well borrow it at a better rate and then they pay you - at least that way you know you will be responsible for the debt rather than waiting until they default and then having to pay 50% APR or whatever
Obviously though don't get involved, if they need a guarantor loan it means they cannot get a normal loan = mainstream lenders won't touch them as they know they won't get paid back - which says it all about your risk of backing them4 -
No way, as others have said, if their finances are so bad that they need a guarantor you have a very high risk of needing to repay it. Normally the only people who need a guarantor for a loan are those with a really bad repayment record and they are less likely to repay you than a lender.
I would tell them that you are sorry to be blunt, but they need to sort out their finances so that they do not need to have a guarantor. Suggest they speak to payplan.com or stepchange.org (beware of others with similar sounding names), and get themselves sorted out.
Be aware that they may try the "there is no problem" "its only" or "but I need" excuses, but PLEASE hold firm and practice saying no without any explanation to whatever their reasons. Good luckCredit card debt - NIL
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nolastchance said:mr_stripey said:You will be responsible for paying it back if they fail to do so (which is quite likely - it has been seen time and time again on these boards)
If they require a guarantor they are probably not a good credit risk, so the loan company puts all the risk on you.4 -
Thanks everyone. I just feel really bad saying no but I need to remember that saying yes could leave me ending up in a lot of debt.3
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Explain, to them, the risk to yourself if they don't keep up their payments, if they're not particularly concerned about this it might make your conversation easier !
They might not have actually had any idea that it works like that and that might make them change their mind.
I was in this situation, with a family member, last year, the conversation didn't go down well but ..... within 6 months the debt they'd got themself into meant most of the 'stuff' they'd used the money for got repossessed .....
It was about 25k in the end.
I'd have been paying/liable for the bulk of that if i'd agreed to their plan.2 -
nolastchance said:Thanks everyone. I just feel really bad saying no but I need to remember that saying yes could leave me ending up in a lot of debt.
People have every right to ask you anything at all but it is your right to either accept or decline. You don't really have to explain any further than you'd rather not, thank you.Please note - taken from the Forum Rules and amended for my own personal use (with thanks) : It is up to you to investigate, check, double-check and check yet again before you make any decisions or take any action based on any information you glean from any of my posts. Although I do carry out careful research before posting and never intend to mislead or supply out-of-date or incorrect information, please do not rely 100% on what you are reading. Verify everything in order to protect yourself as you are responsible for any action you consequently take.0 -
For what it’s worth I don’t think you should feel bad about saying no, if they are true friends/family they will accept your decision and that will be an end to it.0
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