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Bankruptcy where do I start

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Hi, I was married and we went bankrupt 10 years or so ago. My marriage has now broken down and he has left me in debt. To the tune of approximately 12000. 

I am now with a new partner he doesn't need bankruptcy but I definitely do. My gas and electricity debt is 7000 on its own. Nothing is in my ex hubby's name. 

I remember before that you could see how much the OR would allow for food, clothes, hairdressing and holidays. Can anyone point me in the right direction? Also on the sticky the SOA link now doesn't work. 

Please help 
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  • You say we went bankrupt..was this you or your ex 
  • SusieT
    SusieT Posts: 1,267 Forumite
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    Hi, I was married and we went bankrupt 10 years or so ago. My marriage has now broken down and he has left me in debt. To the tune of approximately 12000. 

    I am now with a new partner he doesn't need bankruptcy but I definitely do. My gas and electricity debt is 7000 on its own. Nothing is in my ex hubby's name. 

    I remember before that you could see how much the OR would allow for food, clothes, hairdressing and holidays. Can anyone point me in the right direction? Also on the sticky the SOA link now doesn't work. 

    Please help 
    The SOA link is https://www.lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.php 
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  • SusieT said:
    Hi, I was married and we went bankrupt 10 years or so ago. My marriage has now broken down and he has left me in debt. To the tune of approximately 12000. 

    I am now with a new partner he doesn't need bankruptcy but I definitely do. My gas and electricity debt is 7000 on its own. Nothing is in my ex hubby's name. 

    I remember before that you could see how much the OR would allow for food, clothes, hairdressing and holidays. Can anyone point me in the right direction? Also on the sticky the SOA link now doesn't work. 

    Please help 
    The SOA link is https://www.lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.php 
    Thanks lovely, do you know what essential expenses I can put in for a family of 5?

  • Hi you put in whatever you spend...the guildlines are not for public knowledge 
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,494 Ambassador
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    As above, input your usual spend, plus about 10% to allow for increases in costs, if the OR thinks any category is particularly high, they will mention it to you in your initial interview, if its justifiable then fine, if not, they may ask you to lower it, it`s at their discretion.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • RAS
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    Why bankruptcy rather than a Debt Relef Order if you owe less than £30k?

    Assuming your excess income is less than £70 per month?
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • RAS said:
    Why bankruptcy rather than a Debt Relef Order if you owe less than £30k?

    Assuming your excess income is less than £70 per month?
    I'm not keen on DRO I'm stressed as it is, so need a clean slate away from the imbecile who helped ruin me 😂. Socks being an adult 
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,494 Ambassador
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    RAS said:
    Why bankruptcy rather than a Debt Relef Order if you owe less than £30k?

    Assuming your excess income is less than £70 per month?
    I'm not keen on DRO I'm stressed as it is, so need a clean slate away from the imbecile who helped ruin me 😂. Socks being an adult 
    A DRO would be a lot more preferable to bankruptcy, it`s just a walk in the park assuming you meet all the criteria, I would not go ahead with bankruptcy for a measly 12k.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • RAS said:
    Why bankruptcy rather than a Debt Relef Order if you owe less than £30k?

    Assuming your excess income is less than £70 per month?
    I'm not keen on DRO I'm stressed as it is, so need a clean slate away from the imbecile who helped ruin me 😂. Socks being an adult 
    It doesn't get easier !
    You'll get all the best advice you'll need here, the members that have replied to you are worth listening to before you do anything else - be guided by them and they'll get you through it.
  • sammyjammy
    sammyjammy Posts: 7,949 Forumite
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    Read about DRO, it isn't a Debt management plan, its a formal insolvency option which is cheaper than bankruptcy and is cleared within a year.

    https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/getting-a-debt-relief-order/getting-a-debt-relief-order
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