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Would it be acceptable to “Rat” out a work colleague?

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  • ACG
    ACG Posts: 24,534 Forumite
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    Im with you, I hated doing overtime and would always try to avoid it. 
    If it was being forced on me, 100% I would say something. 

    I would try to find a way to discuss it without throwing your colleague under the bus but if that is the only way to get your evenings/weekends back then yes. 
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  • 74jax
    74jax Posts: 7,930 Forumite
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    If the only way the work gets done is overtime, can you just not be available for overtime? Just do your hours and collect your salary? 
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  • Marcon
    Marcon Posts: 14,322 Forumite
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    Acceptable to whom? It certainly won't be to your colleague and you run the risk of creating a throroughly unpleasant workplace for yourself once he rumbles - as he will - who welched on him. If the boss already knows but is 'too scared' to do anything, there's no point. Far better, as others have already said, to propose a 'solution' without necessarily being too explicit about the problem - or more accurately who the problem is. 
    Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!  
  • What a bunch of wimps! Absolutely say something. Won’t it drive you mad putting up with this rubbish? What power does this guy have? None I bet 
  • How many people do your job?
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  • TELLIT01
    TELLIT01 Posts: 17,958 Forumite
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    Where my wife worked there were many complaints about unequal output of work from people doing exactly the same job.  Complaints/concerns were raised with managers but nothing ever happened. 
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