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If in retirement what do you wish you’d known before taking retirement
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pensionpawn said:If you are married, plan retirement as a couple. That only dawned on me in my early 40's. Make sure that you have sufficiently large pots to both be able to draw down (at least) your personal allowances until you croak it. If you then access your funds via UFPLS that will be a joint retirement income of £33k5 tax free. In order to achieve this make sure that the larger earner contributes to the lower earners pot over the years. I dumped a significant portion of my TFLS into my wife's pension to help the balancing process. Make sure that you'll both qualify for full SP as that will take the load off your personal pension(s) in your later years. Full SPs will also lessen the need for larger pots, giving you the option to (semi?) retire earlier. Your retirement income only has to cover your needs at retirement, which should be significantly less that during your accumulation phase e.g. kids growing up and leaving home (my water bill plumeted!) Take steps to reduce your outgoings in retirement e.g. install solar panels to reduce energy bills. Note that you can continue to pay £2880 (£3600) into your pensions (until 75) after you quit work. As a couple this will gain you £1440 of free money pa. With the exception of care / illnes your outgoings will be less as you get older, which could influence how large you believe your pots need to be. I'm no expert having learnt significantly from this forum and a long standing friend. Remember, tomorrow isn't promised. Don't plan for the future at the expense of the present, and enjoy your retirement planning as soon as you can. None of us are getting any younger.Mortgage free
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MACKEM99 said:What I did in the last few years before I retired was to live on the amount I would have in retirement and save\invest the rest. Let me see if I could do it and provided an extra nest egg. I agree it will not work for everyone.0
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PennyForThem_2 said:This is REALLY GOOD ADVICE that you should plan as a couple.
Make sure your partner is on board, understands how you are as individuals you are planning to fund your retirement.
BUT most important of all, KNOW what happens if one dies and what you, as surviving partner, are entitled to.0 -
sheslookinhot said:pensionpawn said:If you are married, plan retirement as a couple. That only dawned on me in my early 40's. Make sure that you have sufficiently large pots to both be able to draw down (at least) your personal allowances until you croak it. If you then access your funds via UFPLS that will be a joint retirement income of £33k5 tax free. In order to achieve this make sure that the larger earner contributes to the lower earners pot over the years. I dumped a significant portion of my TFLS into my wife's pension to help the balancing process. Make sure that you'll both qualify for full SP as that will take the load off your personal pension(s) in your later years. Full SPs will also lessen the need for larger pots, giving you the option to (semi?) retire earlier. Your retirement income only has to cover your needs at retirement, which should be significantly less that during your accumulation phase e.g. kids growing up and leaving home (my water bill plumeted!) Take steps to reduce your outgoings in retirement e.g. install solar panels to reduce energy bills. Note that you can continue to pay £2880 (£3600) into your pensions (until 75) after you quit work. As a couple this will gain you £1440 of free money pa. With the exception of care / illnes your outgoings will be less as you get older, which could influence how large you believe your pots need to be. I'm no expert having learnt significantly from this forum and a long standing friend. Remember, tomorrow isn't promised. Don't plan for the future at the expense of the present, and enjoy your retirement planning as soon as you can. None of us are getting any younger.0
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cheerfulcat said:I’m 60 now. Most of my friends and acquaintances are of a similar age or older, and they are starting to die. My top non-financial tip? Make friends with some people younger than you.Now a gainfully employed bassist again - WooHoo!3
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I am not yet retired, but I found the following interesting:1
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SarahB16 said:
I'm anywhere from 11 to 18 years away from retirement and at 49 am already considering my retirement. Not that I don’t enjoy my job but I don’t wish to look back at the age of 60 or 67 and think I wish I’d known that when I was say 50.
I work full time and am satisfied with my pension provision but there are also other non-financial aspects to consider regarding how to spend your time when retired. I volunteer in my local community and also have many friends that live nearby and as I get older I think having friends that live near to me will become more important because as I get older it may be harder to travel longer distances.
I would love to hear from people who are in retirement or are approaching retirement but are actively doing something now to improve their retirement. This may be something financial but ideally I’m looking for non-financial responses. If anybody could kindly share their advice perhaps how they enjoy spending their time and what they wish they had done differently with hindsight or perhaps just share their tips for having an enjoyable retirement.
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Bimbly said:I am not yet retired, but I found the following interesting:3
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You have to get used to saying you are retired. Some people do not like saying that as it makes them feel old/over the hill
Like many people on this forum, I was always reasonably cautious/sensible with money, although I relaxed about it a bit more as I got older. I thought when the regular pay packet stopped and was only replaced by a regular DB income of around 25% the size, I thought I might start counting the pennies again. Instead I have gone a bit the other way ( not too much mind ).
I think it is partly that I worked a couple more years than I really needed to and if anything have overshot The Number ( although 2022 has done its best to rectify that ) . Plus I think just the act of retiring has made me realise more clearly that all that money saved and pension contributions made, were for a reason and not just to make my offspring/OH rich when I die !
Still old habits die hard and still not shopping in Waitrose or M& S yet3 -
SarahB16 said:
I'm anywhere from 11 to 18 years away from retirement and at 49 am already considering my retirement. Not that I don’t enjoy my job but I don’t wish to look back at the age of 60 or 67 and think I wish I’d known that when I was say 50.
I work full time and am satisfied with my pension provision but there are also other non-financial aspects to consider regarding how to spend your time when retired. I volunteer in my local community and also have many friends that live nearby and as I get older I think having friends that live near to me will become more important because as I get older it may be harder to travel longer distances.
I would love to hear from people who are in retirement or are approaching retirement but are actively doing something now to improve their retirement. This may be something financial but ideally I’m looking for non-financial responses. If anybody could kindly share their advice perhaps how they enjoy spending their time and what they wish they had done differently with hindsight or perhaps just share their tips for having an enjoyable retirement.
If you are a high rate taxpayer, chuck money into that pension!
Also put some aside to give you flexibility to jump ship before you can access pensions….
Nurture those friends & local community things: they are precisely what you want flourishing when you chose to give up the day job and retire!
Unclear on your personal circumstances: to some (incl me), family is important, and time spare to help those can be precious.
Plan for tomorrow, enjoy today!2
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