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Child support payments - when do they stop

Pat38493
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Can I ask exactly when I can or should stop making child support payments to my ex?
I think it is when your child finished full time education at 18, but when exactly am I allowed to stop them? Is it as soon as they have took their A levels and stopped going to school, or is it after the official end of last school term, or is it the beginning of following year, or is it the second they turned 18?
Also am I supposed to mandatorily continue those payments if they go to University - I think not from a few points I read online?
Probably I would use the same money to help at Univserity costs but I'm just wanting to know what is my mandatory obligation.
I think it is when your child finished full time education at 18, but when exactly am I allowed to stop them? Is it as soon as they have took their A levels and stopped going to school, or is it after the official end of last school term, or is it the beginning of following year, or is it the second they turned 18?
Also am I supposed to mandatorily continue those payments if they go to University - I think not from a few points I read online?
Probably I would use the same money to help at Univserity costs but I'm just wanting to know what is my mandatory obligation.
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Pat38493 said:Can I ask exactly when I can or should stop making child support payments to my ex?
I think it is when your child finished full time education at 18, but when exactly am I allowed to stop them? Is it as soon as they have took their A levels and stopped going to school, or is it after the official end of last school term, or is it the beginning of following year, or is it the second they turned 18?
Also am I supposed to mandatorily continue those payments if they go to University - I think not from a few points I read online?
Probably I would use the same money to help at Univserity costs but I'm just wanting to know what is my mandatory obligation.
The end point should be whenever they officially leave full-time education, so if they are still registered with the school until the end of term then that would be the point to trigger the end of payments I believe.
I'm not sure if payments end immediately or whether it's at the next set review point but I guess you should inform CMS the child has left FTE and let them sort it out.2 -
It's the end of August/beginning of September after they've taken A levels that summer. So if they've just sat them then it's later this year. I believe it's in line with when Child benefit is paid to. I've seen posts before that say that CB ends on 1st September but I don't think that's 100% accurate as I saw a letter from them last year for my daughter saying it ended on the last (named a day of the week) in September. I can't quite remember exactly but maybe the first Monday in September.
Usually you don't pay maintenance once they go to Uni. If you wish to do so then that's entirely your decision. Your child will receive a maintenance loan that is based on the household income of the parent/s and partner/s where they live. Eg if they live with a low earning parent they will receive more loan. If they live with low earning parent who has remarried/co-habits then both of those wages will be taken into account.1 -
Pat38493 said:Can I ask exactly when I can or should stop making child support payments to my ex?
I think it is when your child finished full time education at 18, but when exactly am I allowed to stop them? Is it as soon as they have took their A levels and stopped going to school, or is it after the official end of last school term, or is it the beginning of following year, or is it the second they turned 18?
Also am I supposed to mandatorily continue those payments if they go to University - I think not from a few points I read online?
Probably I would use the same money to help at Univserity costs but I'm just wanting to know what is my mandatory obligation.
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A uni student can take their parents (plural) to court to claim child maintenance.
Benefits finish July if finished with full time non advanced education, but can, if registered with the careers service, claim all child related benefits benefits including child maintenance, continue for a further 5 mths.
if starting uni they stop immediately.
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JJWSJS8700 said:A uni student can take their parents (plural) to court to claim child maintenance.
Benefits finish July if finished with full time non advanced education, but can, if registered with the careers service, claim all child related benefits benefits including child maintenance, continue for a further 5 mths.
if starting uni they stop immediately.When approved education or training ends
When your child leaves approved education or training, payments will stop at the end of February, 31 May, 31 August or 30 November (whichever comes first).
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https://www.gov.uk/child-benefit-16-19
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I think we can stop when the child is 18 years old or has joined the job.Let children adapt to society as soon as possible.0
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mikejassss said:I think we can stop when the child is 18 years old
Not if the young person is still in full time non advanced education. Lots of young people continue with their education after the age of 18.
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JJWSJS8700 said:A uni student can take their parents (plural) to court to claim child maintenance.
Benefits finish July if finished with full time non advanced education, but can, if registered with the careers service, claim all child related benefits benefits including child maintenance, continue for a further 5 mths.
if starting uni they stop immediately.0 -
JJWSJS8700 said:A uni student can take their parents (plural) to court to claim child maintenance.0
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