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Ex partner has tax bill

My ex partner has a large tax bill due to my son receiving child benefit when we lived together.
I spoke to hmrc when I had our daughter and realised then, so opted out for both children. But there was around 12mths where we lived together and I was still receiving child benefit for my son.
I understand that ex should have done self assessment or I should have opted out on the benefit.
My ex has ignored this bill for a long time - maybe 2 years. So it has obviously grown in size!
He now says that I should pay the bill as it was my child receiving. 
Should I contact hmrc and try to speak to them about it? Will they expect me to pay the bill? All of the letters are addressed to him only, I have never received a bill
Thank you

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  • sarahpep said:
    My ex partner has a large tax bill due to my son receiving child benefit when we lived together.
    I spoke to hmrc when I had our daughter and realised then, so opted out for both children. But there was around 12mths where we lived together and I was still receiving child benefit for my son.
    I understand that ex should have done self assessment or I should have opted out on the benefit.
    My ex has ignored this bill for a long time - maybe 2 years. So it has obviously grown in size!
    He now says that I should pay the bill as it was my child receiving. 
    Should I contact hmrc and try to speak to them about it? Will they expect me to pay the bill? All of the letters are addressed to him only, I have never received a bill
    Thank you
    Did you have more income than him?

    Does the period the charge (High Income Child Benefit Charge) relate just to the period when you were living together?
  • No my income was not larger than his, he was on nearly 60k. When he moved in with me and my son I informed the council and tax credits abd all other bebefits stopped. I seriously didn't think about checking the child benefit received for my son.

    And yes I believe it does but he hasn't showed me much of the correspondence so cant check dates etc.
  • sheramber
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    The  person with the net adjusted income over £50.000 gets the bill.

    HMRC will pursue your ex partner for payment.

    Any arrangement for you to pay it is an arrangement between the two of you.
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