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Big Elephant in the Room with Cost of Living Crisis
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socks_uk
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I think this is the only place I can mention this seeing as we are all looking forward to being debt free but...
Why is nobody talking about the Big Elephant in the Room which is people's personal debt?
Don't get me wrong, I understand that prices of energy, food and other bills are going up but all I seem to be hearing is how much 'disposable' income people have.
Now since my lightbulb moment of realising I needed to sort out my own debt, I have cut down on my spending and cut out non essential subscriptions, and I made the final payment on my personal loan last Saturday leaving me with just 2 credit cards on 0%.
We are hearing of people earning £40,000 needing to use food banks but I wouldn't be surprised if they too have personal debt which is helping cause this cost of living crisis but nobody in the news is taking about it. I'm hoping Martin Lewis will do one of his TV specials about it.
Am I wrong, or even just over thinking this? Hopefully, if I keep going as I am, I should be debt free by my 60th birthday in 2 years time ( possibly before).
Why is nobody talking about the Big Elephant in the Room which is people's personal debt?
Don't get me wrong, I understand that prices of energy, food and other bills are going up but all I seem to be hearing is how much 'disposable' income people have.
Now since my lightbulb moment of realising I needed to sort out my own debt, I have cut down on my spending and cut out non essential subscriptions, and I made the final payment on my personal loan last Saturday leaving me with just 2 credit cards on 0%.
We are hearing of people earning £40,000 needing to use food banks but I wouldn't be surprised if they too have personal debt which is helping cause this cost of living crisis but nobody in the news is taking about it. I'm hoping Martin Lewis will do one of his TV specials about it.
Am I wrong, or even just over thinking this? Hopefully, if I keep going as I am, I should be debt free by my 60th birthday in 2 years time ( possibly before).
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Everyone's talking about it, as it all ties into the general strain on people's finances, but the increase in cost of living is the newest element, so has a greater focus.
But prsonal debt has been a major news item for many years now and it won't go away any time soon.
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Personal debt tends to be looked upon as being the norm, in a lot of peoples lives, carrying credit card balances etc.
The usual scenario when credit card payments become to much, is first to balance transfer, then when those offers dry up, to consolidate, and they may do this more than once, so are always paying off historic debt.
Of course not everyone does this, many only spend what they can afford, and clear the balance every month, but lots don`t do it that way, either because the disposable income just isn`t there, or there is always an unexpected bill that needs paying.
Recent rises in the cost of living, inflation, and electricity and gas in particular, tend to make the headlines as it affects almost everyone, it all adds up to a miserable time for many people, and if you are carrying large levels of personal debt to boot, then your situation just gets worse.
The one thing I would say, is that your utility bills and your food shop, are essential spends, priority debts if you like, your personal loan, and/or your credit card, is not an essential debt, and if it comes to a choice between them, your essential debts win out every time, don`t struggle to pay your credit card at the expense of paying your electric or gas bill.
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I agree with you that personal debt has become normalised over the years and it is taken for granted people are servicing it in addition to normal bills and expenses. I agree with @sourcrates that people should not prioritise credit card repayments over food, energy costs and other essential bills but I do wish a discussion could be had over peoples attitude to debt and move away from the buy now pay later attitude. It is not in finance companies interests to do that though and money saving sites like this only attract the minority of people and not usually the ones who need it most.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Between debt, and signing up for contracts, it seems to be very normal to commit to spending a lot of income before you have earned it. Which of course has a huge loss in flexibility when you need or choose to alter spending patterns.
But a banker, engaged at enormous expense,Had the whole of their cash in his care.
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I'll echo what others have said about the normalisation - people are frequently astonished now when you tell them you have no personal debt at all, and in our case not even a mortgage. The assumption is usually that you must have inherited money to clear the latter, and of course there is nothing wrong with it if that IS what's happened, but in our case it was as simple as ensuring that the mortgage we took in the first place wasn't the limit of what we could afford, and also hard work in getting it cleared early. I wish there was more knowledge out there around the difference that even small overpayments to a mortgage can make!
The current drift across to a buy-now, pay-later lifestyle frightens me - many on here know my dislike of Paypal credit as it just makes it so easy for people to slip into debt without even realising it, and in many cases without even seeing it as debt in the first place.🎉 MORTGAGE FREE (First time!) 30/09/2016 🎉 And now we go again…New mortgage taken 01/09/23 🏡
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socks_uk said:I think this is the only place I can mention this seeing as we are all looking forward to being debt free but...
Why is nobody talking about the Big Elephant in the Room which is people's personal debt?
Don't get me wrong, I understand that prices of energy, food and other bills are going up but all I seem to be hearing is how much 'disposable' income people have.
Now since my lightbulb moment of realising I needed to sort out my own debt, I have cut down on my spending and cut out non essential subscriptions, and I made the final payment on my personal loan last Saturday leaving me with just 2 credit cards on 0%.
We are hearing of people earning £40,000 needing to use food banks but I wouldn't be surprised if they too have personal debt which is helping cause this cost of living crisis but nobody in the news is taking about it. I'm hoping Martin Lewis will do one of his TV specials about it.
Am I wrong, or even just over thinking this? Hopefully, if I keep going as I am, I should be debt free by my 60th birthday in 2 years time ( possibly before).I think the big difference is that having personal debt is usually something that is built up over a period of time and to get out of debt the person involved needs to go through their finances and budget as required. So to get out of debt people can usually fix it themselves and the cause of the debt is usually something they also had control over such as overspending.The "cost of living crisis" is different because people are having to pay more for essentials such as energy and food but have no control over the price they pay apart from cutting down.So they are two very different things with different cause.But i'm not sure what the benefit of reporting that some people have taken on high levels of debt as most people will just say something along the lines of "well nobody forced them to take on debt so that's their own fault".
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RogerBareford said:socks_uk said:I think this is the only place I can mention this seeing as we are all looking forward to being debt free but...
Why is nobody talking about the Big Elephant in the Room which is people's personal debt?
Don't get me wrong, I understand that prices of energy, food and other bills are going up but all I seem to be hearing is how much 'disposable' income people have.
Now since my lightbulb moment of realising I needed to sort out my own debt, I have cut down on my spending and cut out non essential subscriptions, and I made the final payment on my personal loan last Saturday leaving me with just 2 credit cards on 0%.
We are hearing of people earning £40,000 needing to use food banks but I wouldn't be surprised if they too have personal debt which is helping cause this cost of living crisis but nobody in the news is taking about it. I'm hoping Martin Lewis will do one of his TV specials about it.
Am I wrong, or even just over thinking this? Hopefully, if I keep going as I am, I should be debt free by my 60th birthday in 2 years time ( possibly before).I think the big difference is that having personal debt is usually something that is built up over a period of time and to get out of debt the person involved needs to go through their finances and budget as required. So to get out of debt people can usually fix it themselves and the cause of the debt is usually something they also had control over such as overspending.The "cost of living crisis" is different because people are having to pay more for essentials such as energy and food but have no control over the price they pay apart from cutting down.So they are two very different things with different cause.But i'm not sure what the benefit of reporting that some people have taken on high levels of debt as most people will just say something along the lines of "well nobody forced them to take on debt so that's their own fault".
It's the flexibility thing - as cost of living goes up, I put less into savings and when my car next needs replacing may buy a cheaper one. If I had taken on debt to buy my last car I would no longer be able to make that change easily - I would have committed to paying £X00 a month towards the car and so be less able to weather changes outside my control. That flexibility in budget is the thing that debt destroys.
But a banker, engaged at enormous expense,Had the whole of their cash in his care.
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It would be very short sighted of me to say personal debt is just that personal.
As I see it, those in debt fall into three groups, well mainly two of them. Those who can afford the debt and those who can’t. Those that can, can be split into those who can just about afford it and those who are in control and plan for such things as the cost of living rising. (The later being as rare as hens teeth)
I thought we were in control of our debts until a change in circumstances meant we weren’t. For change of circumstances now read cost of living increase…
Those who are in debt who couldn’t afford it, now still further can’t afford it. Those that cagoule just about manage are no longer managing and the smaller group still can afford their debt.
I agree it is becoming a norm, but should someone with a personal debt get more help than myself to cope with the cost of living?Proud to have dealt with our debtsStarting debt 2005 £65.7K.
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EssexHebridean said:The current drift across to a buy-now, pay-later lifestyle frightens me - many on here know my dislike of Paypal credit as it just makes it so easy for people to slip into debt without even realising it, and in many cases without even seeing it as debt in the first place.
It seems impossible to make an online purchase these days without a 'spread the cost' Klarna/Clearpay/Paypal credit type offer being prioritised. I just want to pay. Now. Today so I don't increase my debt. No wonder debt is being normalised...Life gets in the way...PADding is addictive...Saving's better than spending...My savings diary - Now for a healthier, wealthier me2025 1p challenge #41 | Cash envelope challenge #01 | SPC #017Sealed pot 2025 £6573 | EF £1000/£1000 | Sabbatical £3364/£6000 | Travel savings £1508 | Sinking pots £25713 -
I know a lot of people who live a fairly modest life, which they could afford, but because wages have not kept pace with inflation and they have cut back on everything unnecessary, but with massive hikes in rent and now in pretty much everything, it is coming to a choice between heating and eating or debt.Unfortunately we have a vicious government who see the public purse as something for them and their mates to dip into, not money they are supposed to apply to the benefit of all the citizens of the country.And there are still people who defend them😱 Stockholm Syndrome0
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