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Dusty's Frugal Fortnights Return!

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  • Bluegreen143
    Bluegreen143 Posts: 3,704 Forumite
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    Can you not just take the whole box into the kitchen one at a time? That’s what I do, then speedily pile it it all onto the table. As @joedenise says, I then put it away at leisure. But if you can’t manage the tray yourself, I think they are now allowed to take them into the kitchen for you again if necessary.
    Part time working mum | Married in 2014 | DS born 2015 & DD born 2018

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6542225/stopping-the-backsliding-a-family-of-four-no-longer-living-beyond-their-means/p1?new=1

    Consumer debt free!
    Mortgage: -£128,033

    Savings: £6,050
    - Emergency fund £1,515
    - New kitchen £556
    - December £420
    - Holiday £3,427
    - Bills £132

    Total joint pension savings: £55,425
  • dp1
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    Dustydigger - if you ask the driver he will carry the trays through to your kitchen so you can unpack onto a table or work tops x
  • dustydigger
    dustydigger Posts: 1,526 Forumite
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    @joedenise. The groceries come in trays ,all items loose. It would take longer putting them one by one in bags than just taking out 2 at a time from his tray and putting them on benches, draining board,!table,top of microwave etc till I look like a shop myself
    He turned up just after I posted on here,at 9.40. When I said you are early,he defensively said I was actually marked down for 9.15 delivery. I have a fixed weekly slot,10 am -11 am.
    I am always home,but what if someone had to do a quick trip before 10 am,and arrived to find he has been and gone?
    Anyway,happy to see it cost £55.38. Anything under £70 is good.
    I used to eke out deliveries to 8 or 9 days apart,but always ran out of things,or ordered extra stuff to avoid running out,and then we had to buy locally or Mr D went off to Tesc* and bought the wrong things or extras like pineapples,mangos,avocados with him refusing to,. We had a row yesterday because I said I wasnt buying a pawpaw costly £3.99. Reminded him the last one wasnt even nice.Bad enough buying 3 large bunches of bananas a week. He went off in a sulk. Becoming frugal is going to be a real challenge when he absolutely refuses to compromise on his fresh salmon,lamb,rump steak,prawns,and copious amounts of fruits.,vegetables and of course his beloved potatoes. Of course he wont have some cheap brand of potatoes costing £1 a bag,he only eats Marabel,at £2 bag. And yes,he can tell the difference,cant slyly put anything past him :(
    Good job I have a monthly delivery pass £6, so can make unlimited deliveries for that. Physical shop would cost £5 for a taxi home,never mind shoving wonky trolleys around the store,packing then standing in wind or rain for the taxi  to come .Thankfully spared all that hassle.
  • EssexHebridean
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    Tesc0 also have a policy where the driver will walk away for a short while to allow you to unpack so you don't feel as rushed - if that helps. Could be worth checking whether (was is A5da you said you used?) have the same, and the driver is just trying to speed up his round by hovering. 
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  • dustydigger
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    Each driver seems to have their own quirks. Only one woman,comes rarely,but she puts a box on the doorstep and does all the bending. Picks up an item in each hand,slides them on bench,I pick them up and move them away,by then she has 2 more ready,and whisks away each empty trayand we make a great team,really smooth and slick.
    On the other hand,one stacks the boxes about a foot away from the door and walks 8 feet away,I am left with it all to do. Some put one box on the ground,others are willing to put one box at a time on the bench.
    The weird one today held a tray at his knee height and it was a scramble to get things out of his box,thinking that it must be uncomfortable for him holding a tray that way,so I asked for him to put it on the bench.
    Some are chatty and friendly,one literally doesnt talk at all,no responses,looks bored and impatient.
    Hey,when you are housebound,you look for the smallest thing of interest! lol.
  • Bluegreen143
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    edited 17 May 2022 at 1:41PM
    I’ve actually found going more frequent with deliveries is working better for us rather than trying to stretch them out - less waste as fresh stuff is eaten when absolutely fresh and it seems less of a chore to do the order and unpacking as it’s small. We’ve been getting two deliveries a week on a Monday and a Friday. This probably only works for families who are getting bigger orders, as you have to get £40 worth at a time (though it’s not all from the food budget as we also order cleaning stuff/toiletries/random bits like lightbulbs or printer paper etc).
    Part time working mum | Married in 2014 | DS born 2015 & DD born 2018

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6542225/stopping-the-backsliding-a-family-of-four-no-longer-living-beyond-their-means/p1?new=1

    Consumer debt free!
    Mortgage: -£128,033

    Savings: £6,050
    - Emergency fund £1,515
    - New kitchen £556
    - December £420
    - Holiday £3,427
    - Bills £132

    Total joint pension savings: £55,425
  • dustydigger
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    Yep,30p is doable,if you have a whole team of chefs,£50,an industrial oven - and somewhere to freeze 170 portions.in your tiny B&B room,and are willing to have 170 p0rtions of the same meal in a row.Good luck with that.
  • annieb64
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    Dustydigger-I pay for Kindle unlimited too. I read very fast so get through a lot of books . It was brilliant during the lockdowns so have kept it on. Most of our local charity shops seem to charge £1.99 a book and the library doesn't seem to have had any new stock for ages.

    Still prefer a "real" book if it's nonfiction. 
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