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Advice needed please
bodie3
Posts: 2 Newbie
Hello, I'm hoping someone can help me.
A very long traumatic story short, my husband and I lived with my in-laws in their house & I cared for both of them for approx 10yrs.
When they both passed away 3yrs ago they left the house to my brother-in-law (also lives in house) and my husband. My husband passed away last year and left his share to me. My brother -in-law owns the other half and we are currently living in the house together, although he works and pays towards bills, he is a very aggresive person (have mutliple holes in walls etc) and he does nothing as far as looking after the house/garden.
I know the sensible thing to do would be to just sell up and go our seperate ways, but I've lived here for 15yrs and just have so many memories/emotions to the place, I have lovely neighbour (who is essentially my support system!), plus it has a lot of potential to be really nice/it's close to work etc.
The house is owned outright by both of us, mortgage free and we have a 50/50 share as tenants in common.
The house has been valued at around £210k. I would also like to be able to borrow enough to renovate the house, *(ideally 25k but would happily defer that bit if it helped with my chances) so guessing that would mean I would be needing eith a £105k or *£130k mortgage?
I earn £1200 a month & have no debts/cards etc and according to Experian my credit is good.
I have a spreadsheet for my actual outgoings, bills incl. car/travel etc come to approx: £450 and I'm super tight budgetwise on food etc
I have a small savings of approx 2.5k
Would I have a snowball's chance in hell of getting a mortgage for that sort of amount to buy him out and would my share/equity in the property help me in anyway?
Thank you for taking the time to read and in advance for any replies.
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@bodie3 Based on the limited info in your post, to borrow 105k you are likely to require at least 21-24k of gross annual income. You don't need any deposit as you already have 50% equity.
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Does he actually.ly want you to buy him out.make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
and we will never, ever return.0 -
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He may say that but when push comes to shove he has a Rent/Mortgage free home and does Nothing around the house but damage it when he Loses the plot ( After drinking ??? )
Does he work ?
Where will he live if he gets half the equity in the property ?
How much does it cost to rent in your area ?
Would he buy a property nearby ?
Could he get a mortgage.
Good luck1
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