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IPQ is this normal????

Hi Guys

I feel a bit selfish asking a question as only logged out yesterday afternoon and something seems to of happened in between...

But here goes...

As some of you already know myself and my OH went BR in early October and I started a new job in November and had to fill out a IPQ, now my partner has also been asked to fill out the form a few weeks after me - IS THIS NORMAL.????

There's not a day that goes by that I don't log on to read all the posts and I love reading them but most don't seem to have too much to do with the OR after the interview I seem to speak to him most weeks - he will be coming round for Christmas dinner soon!!!!

Why do you think my OH has got to fill this in now????

Also could he still disallow things on our SOA??? or would he have mentioned it by now!!!

Anyway thanks to you all in advance and whatever has happened keep posting as I love reading all the post and its part of my daily routine to log on and read everyones post - its like brushing my teeth!!!!

Oh and by the way my sex life just keeps getting better, even been to Ann Summers for a sexy little number for my OH Birthday, before I stuggled to take my PJ'S off. :j

Happy Xmas

Sleeplessnights xxx
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  • tigerfeet2006
    tigerfeet2006 Posts: 14,030 Forumite
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    I think that it means your DH is being considered for early discharge. I am sure one of the wise ones will be along soon to tell you if I am right or wrong.
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  • Yeah an IPQ is usually issued for an early discharge. (i got mine today, 3 months and 30 days after going BR:D )
    Did the form not come with a letter explaining everything?
    just fill it in, send back and wait and see.
    Good luck

    Ohh and going to Ann Summers for sexy little numbers is not very money saving..tut...improvise and make you own. You can do amazing things with an old pair of marigold gloves, velcro and some ribbon:rolleyes:
    The first time we said hello, was the first time we said goodbye. As the angels took your tiny hand and flew you to the sky-you forever left us breathless. RIP my beautiful granddaughter :(
  • there was notes on the form saying not for ED????

    I just think its funny how I had only just filled one out 2 weeks ago, and we only went BR in October - what does anyone think???
  • Hi BLTN

    Good tip - will maybe try that for Valentines day!!!!!!!

    No there was no letter!!!

    Do you think he would of said before now if he wasn't allowing things I'd put down on the SOA???
  • Umm its a little early for an ED and as it stated it was not for ED then i'm stuck on that one.
    I'll try and find out or nudge someone whos a total BR geek....Fermi..you around????
    The first time we said hello, was the first time we said goodbye. As the angels took your tiny hand and flew you to the sky-you forever left us breathless. RIP my beautiful granddaughter :(
  • Yerr Fermi is great, she's givven me some great advice in the past...

    Fermi hellllllo are you there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • :rotfl: err if you continue to call Fermi a she then HE will not help you:rotfl:
    The first time we said hello, was the first time we said goodbye. As the angels took your tiny hand and flew you to the sky-you forever left us breathless. RIP my beautiful granddaughter :(
  • OMG isn't it funny how wrong you can be and how you build a picture up of someone in your head - sorry Fermi

    Please can you still help me :j
  • NekoZombie
    NekoZombie Posts: 1,664 Forumite
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    I thought Richard S was a she...;)
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  • Richard_S
    Richard_S Posts: 4,432 Forumite
    NekoZombie wrote: »
    I thought Richard S was a she...;)

    I thought NekoZombie was a buddy.:D :D
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