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Hi, thanks for the message. I have gone through all my bills, they are all accurate. The reason I have put £10 for TV licence is because my partner contributes the rest. Also haven’t listed council tax or life insurance as that comes out of his account if that makes sense.
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Gas and electricity likely to be under-estimated too. Particularly bearing in mind recent increases.0
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MEM62 said:Gas and electricity likely to be under-estimated too. Particularly bearing in mind recent increases.
Hi thanks for the message. I did a meter reading 2 weeks ago and my current bill based on that is £130. But yes will increase soon again I imagine, by how much I do not know.MEM62 said:Gas and electricity likely to be under-estimated too. Particularly bearing in mind recent increases.0 -
Could your partner work more hours?Mortgage free wannabe
Actual mortgage stating amount £75,150
Overpayment paused to pay off cc
Starting balance £66,565.45
Current balance £55,819
Cc debt free.0 -
You need to know have a plan if you want to deal with your creditors yourself - and lots of people do, there's nothing I've ever seen to suggest that they "play ball" more with Step Change or PayPlan than if you do it yourself.
Ideally you want them to default your accounts as soon as possible, as Sourcrates says, this is of benefit to you even if it sounds scary.
Your creditors will want to see an SOA and know that you're treating them all "fairly". I would strongly suggest having another version of your SOA that allocates a bit more to expenses so that you will be able to save a small emergency fund and not set yourself up to fail. It's not a bad idea to show your creditors an SOA that only has a very small amount "free" for debt repayments, then build up a pot to be able to offer them full and final settlements in 6 months or so (there's a long and useful thread on F&Fs somewhere).
At the moment your SOA is a bit confused because you have both you and your partner's income but don't account for all the bills you both pay. Are the debts yours or joint? Make sure your SOA reflect this (i.e. is entirely yours, or is completely joint).
For now, I'd write to your creditors telling them that you are unable to meet your contractual minimums and offering a token payment of £5 or even £1 per month while you arrange a repayment plan. Keep it at that level while you build up a buffer and let them default you.Do you not know that a man is not dead while his name is still spoken?
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They're not allowed to treat self-plans differently from managed ones - that was established in the old OFT guidelines that became the current FCA ones.
Now we've seen your soa it's a definite debt management plan at something like £500 per month.
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No need to be ashamed.Newmum92 said:Hi everyone
thanks for the replies so far it’s good to have some honest advice. For what it’s worth I’m very ashamed about the debt I have racked up. In terms of reasons behind the debt, as !!!!!! poor as this sounds, it has been pure stupidness, ignorance and just spending what I don’t have. Over the past 10 years since leaving uni on severs occasions I have consolidated, and a huge mistake was the AA loan which was supposed to my breakthrough moment by consolidating everything, and within the space of a year I’d racked up more debt. I have had a light bulb moment and I am going to watch each penny I spend, budget for luxuries that I want and a positive is that I have a decent income.Here is my SOA[font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Household Information[/b]Number of adults in household........... 2Number of children in household......... 1Number of cars owned.................... 1[b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 1900Partners monthly income after tax....... 670Benefits................................ 84Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 2654[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 866Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 0Electricity............................. 70Gas..................................... 60Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 37Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 38TV Licence.............................. 10Satellite/Cable TV...................... 10Internet Services....................... 0Groceries etc. ......................... 300Clothing................................ 5Petrol/diesel........................... 70Road tax................................ 0Car Insurance........................... 42Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 10Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 435Other child related expenses............ 20Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0Pet insurance/vet bills................. 23.5Buildings insurance..................... 5Contents insurance...................... 5Life assurance ......................... 0Other insurance......................... 0Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 10Haircuts................................ 20Entertainment........................... 10Holiday................................. 0Emergency fund.......................... 50[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 2096.5[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 285000Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 0Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 285000[/b][b]Secured & HP Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 204000...(866)......1.99[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 204000....-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRAA loans.......................20100.....354.......10.9Lloyds credit card ............10400.....145.......38Virgin credit card.............5400......112.......30Very ..........................1100......50........40Starling overdraft ............5000......58........15Barclays overdraft ............5000......130.......45Mbna CC........................1380......51........38Barclaycard ...................4400......147.......45[b]Total unsecured debts..........52780.....1047......- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 2,654Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,096.5Available for debt repayments........... 557.5Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 1,047[b]Amount short for making debt repayments. -489.5[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 285,000Total HP & Secured debt................. -204,000Total Unsecured debt.................... -52,780[b]Net Assets.............................. 28,220[/b]
FYI- council tax comes out my partners account and is all paid up.
You have fallen into the trap of consolidating which we never recommend on here as it just kicks the can down the road and usually leads to higher debt as it delays the moment you need to deal with it. I don't think you have any option but to default so although obviously we do not know your profession it is not like a DMP is announced like a bankruptcy so I do not know how they would know unless you tell them. The interest rates are very high so doing a DMP will stop that and allow you money to live. The TV license repayment is incorrect so you need to make sure there are no other inaccuracies. Why isn't the car shown under assets? Be wary of setting the DMP repayment too high. You need to make sure you can live to that budget. A lot of people are relieved once a DMP is set up and they can see that the debt is actually coming down.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Good advice. The other thing (and this is easier with a diy plan) is that if you can save on the side while in a dmp, you can finish off with full & final settlements. I notice you have a large spend on childcare. At some point that will drop out and you should have more surplus.1
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Hi thanks for the message. Just a quick follow up question if you don’t mind… I’m still very anxious and wary but have felt a lot more reassured since being on here. My one anxiety now is the fact I’m a home owner. Do you know what the risk is of a creditor seeking a CCJ / charging order due to the fact I have a home (with a mortgage)? Tbh I really don’t see what alternative I have as my debt payments are £1000 a month and I no longer can afford that but I guess I’m just stressing that this could inevitably happen and then I’ll be really up !!!!!! creek- with my job in serious jeopardy too if they seek a CCJ.sourcrates said:Its a pretty simple scenario debt management, if a creditor doesn't accept your payment offer, you still pay them that anyway, it just hastens up the process of the creditor offloading the debt and selling it onwards.
It makes no difference one way or the other if a creditor accepts the payment amount you are offering, or not, if they are not happy with it, they simply sell the debt on, that doesn't affect you in the slightest, you just pay whoever is writing to you.
Ideally you want all your accounts to default, this benefits you in two ways, first all interest and charges stop, forever, second, you have a clear 6 year window for your credit file to recover, that is what`s called good debt management on your part my freind.Thank you!0
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