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It's getting tough out there. Feeling the pinch?

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  • tooldle
    tooldle Posts: 1,604 Forumite
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    Could I ask TheAble - for transparency, would you be willing to provide some details of your demographic group/background etc? Obviously nothing identifiable, perhaps just the basics, skin colour, gender, class and a rough idea of age?  On the question of -taff's point about the interview - I'll give you a slightly different take on that one. The person concerned has managed to get a charity shop suit - it's out of fashion - clearly dated, but it's clean and "just" fits. They haven't been able to have a haircut, but it's clean, and tied back. The money has run out before getting to shoes though - their only option is a pair of trainers. How much better do you think they would have to perform at interview to get the position over someone who turns up looking immaculate and with well polished formal footwear on? Assuming all things are equal in terms of performance, how the interview goes etc - who do YOU think would get the job? 

    As a side note NOT aimed at anyone in particular - it's quite common for those with innate privilege to be resistant to the idea that they have it, and it's entirely understandable - if something has always just "been there" then we simply take it for granted - it's part of us in the same way that our teeth, nails, hair etc might be. It's only when something happens to shake that assurance, or when it grabs our interest in a way that means we're keen to learn more that perhaps we start to understand that privilege is definitely a thing - and no, not just an invention by "millenial wokeists", either! 
    The interview example is interesting. I do know of some examples where the interviewee has been less than ideally dressed and felt the need to explain themselves at interview. The examples are outside of my own organisation. I don't think anyone should have to explain their clothing circumstances to a panel, but i can fully understand why some might choose to do so. I interview a lot, and have noticed since the advent of Zoom interviews, clothing has become far more casual, particularly for panel members and not so much for the interviewees. As a panel chair i would not accept comments on a candidates clothing in exactly the same way as i would not accept information outside of the scope of the interview questions , for example, this person is known to my team and is great with them, or some other form of personal reference.
  • Brambling
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