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It's getting tough out there. Feeling the pinch?

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  • Rosa_Damascena
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    Spendless said:
    TheAble said:
    Unfortunately, for landlords there haven't been many good news stories over the past few years. Taxes have increased considerably, more eco regulations and difficulties getting their houses back from non-paying tenants. Many have thrown in the towel and sold up and you can't really blame them. Fewer rental houses available and increased rents is the consequence. 
    Forgive me if I can't find much sympathy for LLs, they are making plenty of equity from their multiple properties. But equally I do wonder what the rush to go out and co-habit / rent is, why not stay in the family home and save if work is commutable.

    Overall I'm very grateful to have been born in 1973.
    My guess is it's due to a lot of younger folk now moving out (term time at least) at around 18 to go to Uni. I have that sort of situation with both my 2. Eldest (22) finishes his degree at the end of next week. He has met his fiancée at Uni and they have plans to wed next year. The options on the table are both come back to us (better transport links to other places, less room at our house especially if DD remains here f-time), both go back to her parents (more room but not as good commuting options for DS and relevant work) or for DS to go where more vacancies are and both move away.

    DD who is 19 finds herself in a more frustrating to her situation. Since the Autumn she spent 6 months attending a drama school in Scotland. Though the accommodation is still paid for until mid July, she got a job within commuting distance of here working as an actor at an immersive experience tourist attraction. It's p-time, seasonal work but currently it's probably mid season with the customers either adult parties or school trips (it's also educational based). When she's trained (as in learnt more scripts) and it's high season she should get more hours. She's also still applying for HE courses. Having had a taste of living from parents, she doesn't fully enjoy being back here and under all our house rules but she's not earning enough or in the position where she can do anything about moving out - if she had a long term working partner, it'd be something she'd be looking at. 

    Re - fares, until around the mid 80s bus fares at least where I lived were subsidised. I only ever paid 10p per journey for however long is was (change buses for another leg and you'd be required to pay another 10p). It was a huge help in the days of my first experience of working. 
    Wedding young is nothing new and opportunities were far more limited in previous generations. No grown up likes living by another's rules but that was all the more incentive to prepare for the future: patience and saving were a standard approach back then. There's still an element of saving (although far less at the end of the month to save) but fewer of the younger generations who are used to having what they want in real time would pass the Marshmallow Test.

    Today I have heard stories about people eating one meal a day so their kids can eat. Whilst the sacrifice is understandable, I was a bit surprised that adults expect to eat 3 times a day. Do they?
    No man is worth crawling on this earth.

    So much to read, so little time.
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