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Mortgage rejected due to pregnancy...ground for appeal?
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Banks are been extra careful nowadays.
Maybe broker can advice alternative lender that will accept you.
Also congratulations, try not to stress too much.1 -
Camie85 said:Brie said:I understand completely but as you know doubt know there's lot's of women (& some men) that don't return to work after the birth of a child even though they state they fully intend to.
To a bank I would think this is little different than me saying "yes I have credit cards with a massive amount of available credit but I swear I won't use it once you have given me a mortgage."
I would think that the only way you will get a mortgage is if there is someone else's name on it with you - like your mom perhaps assuming she would tick the affordability boxes.
If that is the case it will be a bitter pill to swallow, I find it difficult that they would think I would leave a well paying job to do what exactly?? Claim benefits?? If anything the pressure is greater to return to work as I don't have anyone else to relie on (my mother has the means to support me financially if I asked but I never would ... I prefer to ask her to help with childcare instead LOL)0 -
It does appear discriminatory to me. Hope you get it sorted and good luck with the baby! Any reason why you aren't taking the full 9 months on full pay?"You've been reading SOS when it's just your clock reading 5:05 "0
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sammyjammy said:It does appear discriminatory to me. Hope you get it sorted and good luck with the baby! Any reason why you aren't taking the full 9 months on full pay?
Also in reality I already work from home and will return to that, also agreed that I will use accrued annual leave and annual leave carried over from this year to space out my working week until baby is 1 years old ie taking 1 - 2 days annual leave per week.
My mother will look after baby on those days that I'm working (she will stay with me in my home)
Once baby is 1 years old then I would of used up my annual leave, put baby in nursery close by part time and the other time with my sister who is a bit further out but is a child minder and I get sister rate.0 -
sammyjammy said:It does appear discriminatory to me.1
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Did you re-apply without stating your situation?0
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