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If you are disciplined, I think you can avoid a debt management plan and any other plan stepchange might suggest (breathing space, IVA).
You will get 0%/low% offers on the cards as you pay them off. As already said, overpay the highest interest ones first and the snowball calculator can help you to organise this
http://www.whatsthecost.com/snowball.aspx
You might need to work together as a family for a couple of years, cut down on clothing & entertainment (both look high) and use Martin's guides when the car insurance comes up for renewal, and on cutting the costs of mobile phones.
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I saw on your original photo payments to cleaner that's not listed..
Also few other thingsMortgage free wannabe
Actual mortgage stating amount £75,150
Overpayment paused to pay off cc
Starting balance £66,565.45
Current balance £58,108
Cc around 8k.3 -
@polarexpress - can you update the SOA as suggested and populate the interest rates on cards and loans so we can suggest which order to pay them off in.
First thing is to get an Emergency Fund together, start at £1k, then build to 1 months worth of expenses (1 months income).
However, we probably need to get your outgoings sorted first.
Phones and comms is extortiante at £300 a month.
Everyone is here to help, don't take any affence to the advice given, sometimes some home truths can help.Life isn't about the number of breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away. Like choking....5 -
Lots of suggestions can be made as to how to get costs down etc but you definitely have to be honest with yourself about how you've accumulated such a large amount of debt. May well be a case of your lifestyle has simply expanded as your incomes have grown and it's all got a bit out of control.6
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Polar_Express said:[font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Household Information[/b]Number of adults in household........... 2Number of children in household......... 2Number of cars owned.................... 2[b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 4750Partners monthly income after tax....... 2425Benefits................................ 0Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 7175[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 666.7Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 338.79Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 159Electricity............................. 66Gas..................................... 50Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 40.64Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 185TV Licence.............................. 13Satellite/Cable TV...................... 47Internet Services....................... 42.08Groceries etc. ......................... 450Clothing................................ 200Petrol/diesel........................... 150Road tax................................ 26Car Insurance........................... 117Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 0Other child related expenses............ 300Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0Buildings insurance..................... 15Contents insurance...................... 29Life assurance ......................... 28.31Other insurance......................... 34Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0Haircuts................................ 0Entertainment........................... 200Holiday................................. 0Emergency fund.......................... 0[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 3157.53[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 230000Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 0Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 230000[/b][b]Secured & HP Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 135543...(666.7)....1.74Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 0........(338.8)....0[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 135543....-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRbarclaycard1...................17655.....400.......0halifax card...................8642......301.4.....0mbna card......................1771......48.88.....0halifax card 2.................4196......200.......0mbna card 2....................5299......300.......0barclaycard2...................4608......300.......0loan 3.........................2243......83.07.....0loan 2.........................31898.....674.......0Loan 1.........................21201.....642.9.....0natwest card...................6135......226.......0virgin card....................11350.....335.2.....0[b]Total unsecured debts..........114998....3511.45...- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 7,175Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 3,157.53Available for debt repayments........... 4,017.47Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 3,511.45[b]Amount left after debt repayments....... 506.02[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 230,000Total HP & Secured debt................. -135,543Total Unsecured debt.................... -114,998[b]Net Assets.............................. -20,541[/b][i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]
On the face of it the high amounts are groceries, clothing, mobiles and entertainment. On the other side though you are not budgeting for haircuts, presents or emergency savings. It also shows you as having a surplus each month which is clearly not the case so I would track down where that missing £500 is going to. What is the £300 on child related expenses? Were the loans for cars and if so why arent they showing under assets? Or are they PCP deals and you either need to hand them back at the end of the deal or pay a balloon? Why are you not saving for car maintenance and are you putting that on cards at the moment?
You need to fill out the interest rates on the soa. Then start to save for emergencies so you are not tempted to use the cards and cut them up or put them away as they have obviously been a crutch for you for a long time and that has made matters worse. Making the payments then spending on the cards is counter productive and even worse if you are paying interest as everything is costing you more. Do some research on the snowball method and start to pay the debts off and save for things rather than using credit. Not a quick solution unfortunately but presumably it took you a long time to get to that level of debt so it will take a while and a massive amount of discipline to get out of it. You have an advantage though in that you have a good income so once you have set a plan and started to budget rather than just borrow to pay for things it will gradually start to come down. Please do not end up taking out secured loans to consolidate the debt. You cannot borrow your way out of this.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Wow, just downloaded the spreadsheet and you really need some breathing space. I have identified an immediate saving of £200 a month straight off which you can redirect in a snowball method to the MBNA. Cancel the following;
Cleaner
Spotify
Blue Rewards
Lotto
Window cleaner
Amazon
Nat Trust
PaypalBaby Step 6/7 . £16000 saved and invested. £47,000 deposit paid on new home DEBT FREE !!!
Currently Negotiating with HMRC !2 -
If that's an accurate SOA, how did all the debt accumulate?
If you're not honest with the SOA, we'll be chipping off the odd £50-100 here and there, and not addressing the reasons for the 100k+ debt in the first place.
Even going from your spreadsheet to the SOA shows a difference of over £506 (SOA) vs £1,139 (spreadsheet).
With that level of income, the debt is nowhere near unsurmountable, but it needs discipline and honesty with yourselves to deal with it.2 -
@Polar_Express I see you've been active on the boards, but not returned to post further following the help and advice given here. I'd really advise you to not risk falling into the trap of burying your head in the sand on this issue - you have a LOT of unsecured debt, and at the level you are at now things will escalate extremely fast until you reach a point where there may only be far less palatable options than a DMP for you to address it with. I understand that Christmas may be foremost right now and would urge you to be mindful of spending over the break, and then immediately afterwards return to this thread and start thinking through how you're going to tackle your issues. In the meantime, have a very merry christmas.🎉 MORTGAGE FREE (First time!) 30/09/2016 🎉 And now we go again…New mortgage taken 01/09/23 🏡
Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
£100k barrier broken 1/4/25SOA CALCULATOR (for DFW newbies): SOA Calculatorshe/her4
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