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So – back after a looong absence & need to take charge of finances again rather than just drifting along.

DH’s job depresses him – really depresses him & an ideal scenario would be that he could give up that job & get a small part time one to make up the difference that we need to keep on the straight & narrow.

My task – to work out what the difference is (&, as a result, what he would have to earn) to allow this to happen as well as clearing the debts in my signature below (there are more – but the below is enough to be going on with) and cutting expenses to the bone – thus reducing the amount needed to be earned.
I have a full time job so I’m not looking for a 2nd part-time job but I have a feeling that with the changes in lifestyle I need to make any extra time will be used up admirably anyway.
I am also going to try to incorporate using local rather than heading off to the big supermarkets.  I know this will be more expensive but the quality is so much better & and I know I’m lucky to be in a place where I can do this.  Produce lasts longer & the meat has more flavour & you don’t need to use as much as it’s not plumped up with water.  Should also save in petrol

So – here we go on a journey to clear the debt and improve the quality of our lives.  

Looking forward to getting tips fromy'all to hasten the journey I'm on

I’m going to save post number 2 for lists of :-
  • Things I will stop buying 
  • Things I have done & money saved (this will be a pick me up when I’m feeling sorry for myself)
  • Money saving actions incorporated into daily life
  • Any sales of stuff or extra money made.  I have way too much stuff & need this kick up the butt to move it on

Debts 07/12/2021
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  • ClootiesMum
    ClootiesMum Posts: 1,606 Forumite
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    Things I will stop buying
    • Books & audiobooks from Audible/Amazon – Just totalled what I spent last year on Amazon/Audible books – OMG - #304.48.  Amazon - #156.86 & Audible #147.62.  That’s an easy #300 saving
    • Kindling for fire – I can chop this – it’s just laziness on my part
    • As much Noseco  - This is my treat to myself but I don’t need treats as often as I have them – maybe once or twice a week would do.  ON the upside – I’m still on the wagon & feeling so much better for it.


    Money saving actions incorporated into daily life
    • Stop using tumble drier – just need to be a bit more organised in keeping the washing up to date so it can dry on horses overnight
    • Transfer #50 per month to pots for birthdays, Christmas & cars.  This is likely to be more than we need but knowing there are funds available will cut down on the panic/worry when another birthday sneaks up the day before payday

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  • edwink
    edwink Posts: 3,003 Forumite
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    edited 7 December 2021 at 10:23PM

    Hi ClootiesMum

    Can I be the first to cheer you on? 

    Just to say good luck and I hope all goes to plan for you. I'll be following you on your journey and will hopefully encourage you along the way.

    Edwink 
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  • ClootiesMum
    ClootiesMum Posts: 1,606 Forumite
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    Thanks Edwink - good to hear from you
    Cheer away :)

    I can't promise it'll be a wild ride but it'll be good to have encouragement
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  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    Do you really need a car
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • ClootiesMum
    ClootiesMum Posts: 1,606 Forumite
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    Hi McKneff - afraid so.  We live in a really rural village & DH has to drive to work each day
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  • CL21
    CL21 Posts: 253 Forumite
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    Good luck! I feel your pain with the book situation 😳 Build some personal spends into the budget though and you can still have a treat from audible 

    Sounds like you’ve got a good plan for the new year - definitely agree with having different savings pots for thing! 
    Credit Card 1 - £6249.99 £4,900
    Credit Card 2 - £13,481.47 £12,985

    Total debt - £19,731.46 £17,885

    Emergency fund £930
  • ClootiesMum
    ClootiesMum Posts: 1,606 Forumite
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    Thanks CL21 - I did think about that but I do have books I still need to listen to & there are some I'll listen to again.
    I will still get books but from charity shops - & not many (honest :) )
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  • CL21
    CL21 Posts: 253 Forumite
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    Ha ha - same! I’m slowly reading my way through a lot of unread kindle books! 
    Credit Card 1 - £6249.99 £4,900
    Credit Card 2 - £13,481.47 £12,985

    Total debt - £19,731.46 £17,885

    Emergency fund £930
  • If you're a member of the library that should give you access to audio books and Ebooks online. I use both borrowbox and Libby, both free to use and a fantastic selection on both. 
  • ClootiesMum
    ClootiesMum Posts: 1,606 Forumite
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    Good call shoppergal
    I have done this once or twice so is likely to feature again.  Real books aren't an issue as neighbour gets bags of books from friends & I get to raid them before she moves them on
    And I have thousands of books on laptop that I just need to decide what to read & move to Kindle.  But audiobooms - library here I come
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