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Buying a house with my girlfriend

I am buying a house with my girlfriend. She will put a massive deposit down and will be paying nothing towards the mortgage. I will be putting no deposit down and paying toward the mortgage every month. In the end she will have still paid 75% of the value. How do we make this fair in the event of a break up?

I want to make sure that neither of us lose out.

We have a solicitor to help us with the trust agreement but we are struggling to come to an agreement.

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  • london21
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    Is she putting down a 75% deposit?
  • MWT
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    edited 1 September 2021 at 3:11PM
    Karlwist0 said:
    I will be putting no deposit down and paying toward the mortgage every month. In the end she will have still paid 75% of the value. How do we make this fair in the event of a break up?
    If she is putting down 75% and there is a mortgage for 25% and you are paying 100% of the mortgage then it is easy.
    If you sold the house the day you bought it, for the same as the purchase price, she gets 75% of the equity, the lender gets 25%, you get nothing.
    If you sell it at some future date after the value has increased and you have paid down part of the mortgage, then she is due 75% of the sales price, and you get the remaining 25% less whatever it takes to clear the mortgage.
    If the value has fallen the calculation is a little more complicated, but given the 75% deposit the value of the property is never likely to be lower than the balance on the mortgage so it still looks like this:
    She gets 75% of the sale price, which may be less than she originally put in. You have to settle the outstanding balance on the mortgage using the remaining 25% of the sale price and if that is not enough you would have to add your own money to cover the shortfall.

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  • london21 said:
    Is she putting down a 75% deposit?
    yeah that's right
  • MWT said:
    Karlwist0 said:
    I will be putting no deposit down and paying toward the mortgage every month. In the end she will have still paid 75% of the value. How do we make this fair in the event of a break up?
    If she is putting down 75% and there is a mortgage for 25% and you are paying 100% of the mortgage then it is easy.
    If you sold the house the day you bought it, for the same as the purchase price, she gets 75% of the equity, the lender gets 25%, you get nothing.
    If you sell it at some future date after the value has increased and you have paid down part of the mortgage, then she is due 75% of the sales price, and you get the remaining 25% less whatever it takes to clear the mortgage.
    If the value has fallen the calculation is a little more complicated, but given the 75% deposit the value of the property is never likely to be lower than the balance on the mortgage so it still looks like this:
    She gets 75% of the sale price, which may be less than she originally put in. You have to settle the outstanding balance on the mortgage using the remaining 25% of the sale price and if that is not enough you would have to add your own money to cover the shortfall.

    So if it goes down in price, only I lose out?
  • MWT said:
    Karlwist0 said:
    I will be putting no deposit down and paying toward the mortgage every month. In the end she will have still paid 75% of the value. How do we make this fair in the event of a break up?
    If she is putting down 75% and there is a mortgage for 25% and you are paying 100% of the mortgage then it is easy.
    If you sold the house the day you bought it, for the same as the purchase price, she gets 75% of the equity, the lender gets 25%, you get nothing.
    If you sell it at some future date after the value has increased and you have paid down part of the mortgage, then she is due 75% of the sales price, and you get the remaining 25% less whatever it takes to clear the mortgage.
    If the value has fallen the calculation is a little more complicated, but given the 75% deposit the value of the property is never likely to be lower than the balance on the mortgage so it still looks like this:
    She gets 75% of the sale price, which may be less than she originally put in. You have to settle the outstanding balance on the mortgage using the remaining 25% of the sale price and if that is not enough you would have to add your own money to cover the shortfall.

    Also, how does this work if we put 50% each into the maintenance? Does this affect the percentage we both get back or will it stay at 75%/25%?

    It may just be me being terrible at maths which is causing the issue here. To me, it seems to keep it all equal she would have to pay 75% towards everything such as a new kitchen or whatever .
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