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Future Proofing my life: Deposit saving then MFW journey in under 13 years

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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,971 Forumite
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    I so relate on this. DS and I swapped a gift we were each given on Xmas Day shortly after receiving it. I told one sis I'd be giving half of her gift to DD before she even gave it - so I don't know if that is boundaries, progress or sheer audacity... Most of my gifts were exactly what I'd requested though so being clear with people can have positive results. Personally I like something to open...
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • Think I may join you in the minimalism game. Hopefully help keep me on track for decluttering
    MFW 2024 £27500/7500 Mortgage £129,500 Jan 22 Final payment June 38 Now £68489.08 FP May 36 Emergency Fund £20,000 100% Added to ISA 24 £8,060 Save 12k in 24 #31 £20,034.76/20,000 Debt Free 31.07.14
  • LadyWithAPlan
    LadyWithAPlan Posts: 3,744 Forumite
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    edited 1 January 2024 at 8:54PM
    Think I may join you in the minimalism game. Hopefully help keep me on track for decluttering
    Great, its actually fun and makes a difficult thing happen in small chunks.

    Loving the unwanted xmas gift conversation ;) I buy a lot and receive loads too. I love a nice xmas stocking 
    - i saw in 2022 i spent about £1100 on xmas gifts and food, havent tracked so well this year but its about the same.

    KajiKita said:
    When you are freaking out about people buying you gifts because you have no idea what you are going to do with them - that's when you know you have achieved minimalism 🤣!
    I know I haven’t achieved minimalism but I do find myself assessing gifts as soon as they appear and thinking, ‘Do I actually want this or will I CS it ….?’ 🤔
    My mother gave me a truly hideous quilted bag for Christmas - it was beautifully made, but dear me, the fabric …. 😳 Even Mr KK blinked at it! 😂😂😂 That is being regifted to a friend who loves these kinds of colours and fabrics. I suspect if I ever see her house it will be somewhat overwhelming for me! 😉

    KK
    That bag sounds right down my street KK ;) My home also resembles that festival of colour where they throw paint at each other.

    CRANKY40 said:
    This is why I no longer do gifts. Have to say, I MUCH prefer Christmas without them 👍!
    I buy for my son and best friend and that's it. My niece and nephews are November birthdays as is my son so it's like Christmas two months on the trot really. My sister and I started just buying for their birthdays but now there are great nephews and a great niece I put money away for them instead of buying for their parents. 

    The way I put it to the rest of my family was "Would you rather buy ten £20 presents for other people and get a load of stuff back that you don't really want or is it a better idea to buy ourselves one really good thing for £200 instead?". They all agreed very quickly to stop and it also meant that anyone who couldn't afford presents anyway could stop without losing face.  
    I dont buy for any friends any more - just the family inc the nephews and nieces. When they have kids i may rethink...

    I got some gifts like this KK and I am already wondering how to dispose of them😂 they are still in a gift bag in the lounge as there is no way they are going upstairs 😂

    If only my flat had stairs !! I was gifted  breakable  ornament things i dont like, I  have left with family but will resell once i get them home ....

    savingholmes said:
    Well done on decluttering even if there is plenty left to do, one day you will look up and find it is more manageable. It is getting easier for me.

    I can't imagine having that many shoes. I have about 3 pairs I wear regularly and up to 7 others in the garage... That feels too many.



    I  do know i have a problem ;) 

    DON'T BUY STUFF (from Frugalwoods)
    No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff.    Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6289577/future-proofing-my-life-deposit-saving-then-mfw-journey-in-under-13-years#latest
  • Cheery_Daff
    Cheery_Daff Posts: 17,116 Forumite
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    Excellent financial summary there, and some good intentions for the next year! Well done you!
  • LadyWithAPlan
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    I think I'll have to join you too - it sounds a fun way to get rid of stuff.  I like the idea of doing a 10 minute rush around to grab as many things as possible - a bit like supermarket sweep :smiley:
    It is exactly that ;) 
    DON'T BUY STUFF (from Frugalwoods)
    No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff.    Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6289577/future-proofing-my-life-deposit-saving-then-mfw-journey-in-under-13-years#latest
  • South_coast
    South_coast Posts: 5,853 Forumite
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    Do you have a Savers near you? They do quite a few vitamins in there. 

    Great goals for 2024. I have decluttered a few things today as well!
    Mortgage start: £65,495 (March 2016)
    Cleared 🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️!!! In 5 years, 1 month and 29 days
    Total amount repaid: £72,307.03. £1.10 repaid for every £1.00 borrowed

    Finally earning interest instead of paying it!!!
  • Do you have a Savers near you? They do quite a few vitamins in there. 

    Great goals for 2024. I have decluttered a few things today as well!
    I do but I take stuff thats quite specialised ... chorella, spirulina etc .. I will check it out though in case. TX SC 

    Cheery_Daff said:
    Excellent financial summary there, and some good intentions for the next year! Well done you!

    It will be even better next year with a year of ynab ;)) Thanks - its too easy to make massive lists of resolutions I find,  then I cant possibly get them all done.



    DON'T BUY STUFF (from Frugalwoods)
    No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff.    Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6289577/future-proofing-my-life-deposit-saving-then-mfw-journey-in-under-13-years#latest
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,971 Forumite
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    Happy New Year. You've achieved loads despite unpaid invoices. I too benefited from a Dec stock market surge. It all helps.

    I have spent the whole day decluttering - including releasing 2 pairs of worn out shoes from the garage. Progress.

    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
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