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Future Proofing my life: Deposit saving then MFW journey in under 13 years

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  • Your work-holiday sounds incredible LaPlan! You got to spend time with a friend, live in luxurious surroundings, eat like a queen, and buy some gifts at a good price that you'd have bought eventually anyway. Don't feel guilty about that. You don't do it often, and getting all that for the price of a flight ticket amendment and an extravagant restaurant meal is an absolute steal. Just imagine the cost if you hadn't been able to expense the original flights, and the cost of a hotel and food at that kind of level, well that doesn't bear thinking about! A well deserved holiday and at a very MSE price in my opinion. Just keep it as a rare treat and you're golden 😎

    A benefit of having a luxurious break like that, I find, is it's so much easier to rein in the spending afterwards. Our "fun money spends" dropped noticeably after our summer holiday as we were all treated out for a while. Our "boring monthly spends" dropped a noticeable amount too thanks fewer grocery and fuel purchases etc. I'm not trying to kid myself, these little savings were a long way from making the holiday cost neutral, but they helped a little.

    I know you're on a buy nothing mission right now (and now is a great time for it after a nice indulgent time away) but when you do start thinking about replacing the phone again please consider an inexpensive power bank that you could pop in your handbag. I have a chunky 20Ah one at home for emergency purposes that would charge our phones many times over, only cost £20ish. A small lightweight one can be had for under £10 easily that would fully charge your phone from empry once or twice. Worth thinking about with the big house purchase firmly in mind. Sometimes you can't "buy nothing", but often at those times you can buy "cheaper alternative that meets the need" 😉


    Thanks for the reframe - always appreciate your wisdom ;) Especially on the vacation - cost £400 flight change £250 with food and big meal - so relatively little cost in the big picture - though it was an unintended plan and I would have spent some food  in London.
    To rent this place for a week is probably £20k a week I should imagine!
    Ok so I am telling myself this vacation is a MSE win and great for a reframe on next steps. I did have a European holiday in August so I feel I am fully treated out so I am trusting I will now spend less ;)

    I already am carrying TWO battery power banks! One I bought at an airport in Sept when I had a long long delay which is ok but lasts maybe 1.5 charge  only and an old v powerful one thats not been used for years so is not great - I am trying it one more time then deluttering it -  So maybe I do need to invest in a ££ in a decent 20ah+ power bank - the issue is my phone battery is not holding charge as it did so when it starts going a recharge doesnt really help  and as its 82% at present I can get more for it at resale ... 
    I was going to get an iphone 15 plus or pro max on contract back in london  over black friday as cheaper and has a physical sim in ... but maybe I just uograde current phone 12 pro  (bought second hand in Feg) to a 14 pro ...  i gather their batteries are better and not full cost .. The running out of power is a pain  especially when I travel so much
    DON'T BUY STUFF (from Frugalwoods)
    No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff.    Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
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  • KajiKita said:
    I think the Ugly isn’t that bad as you had loosely budgeted $200 (though I am very glad your friend paid the service charge!😳). Shame the food itself wasn’t better though. 🤷‍♀️

    Loving the fresh focus and drive you have to realise your dream 😊👏
    Cheering you on madly from the sidelines ❤️🤩🥳

    KK
    Tx for the cheers and recognition it wasnt too bad ;)  Yes when I pay $235 ex service I expect amazing food . It wasnt though I gather the lobster was exquisite so I am happy she enjoyed it.

    There was an iPhone in Martin's email this week - no idea if it would suit you but would it work out cheaper than what you were looking at?
    I will look - I also have my student card so that gives me discounts - I do want a 256gb though  - I could save £300 buying it here! But they only are selling the iphone 15s with an esim only in the US - so I would have to go with either vodafone or a small provider I have never heard of  . hmmm maybe I should have looked at iphone 14s as think they have physical sims in - I will check at airport as not getting off my lounger today  before hitting airport,
    The iphone 15 plus apparently has best battery life even vs the the 15 pro max so .. 
    I will look at airport or I am often back in the US end of January so maybe I will hang on til then..

    I actually think your spendings are a bargain, you’ve had a lovely holiday catching up with a friend, got a load of Vit D and healthier in the process ! 
    Tx I am full of gratitude - so lovely to come out my guest house and see a pool, jacuzzi, beautiful gardens and lounger waiting for me ;)
    DON'T BUY STUFF (from Frugalwoods)
    No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff.    Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6289577/future-proofing-my-life-deposit-saving-then-mfw-journey-in-under-13-years#latest
  • KajiKita
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    Safe travels. Glad you are ready for the cold and damp! 😉 Be good to have you home 😊

    KK
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  • earthgirl2
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    edited 13 November 2023 at 7:28PM
    I would also say if I didn't want a drink, but I have a friend who just blames it on 'medication' if she is in a group and doesn't want to drink as it's easier than explaining for her that her budget has ran out. Sometimes she tells me and I buy her drinks or bring a bottle for her, it's not a problem though. 

    My SIL is a fan of the hip flask (don't think it's a great idea, don't think it supports pubs etc who are really struggling, although it's saved her thousands over the years!) and also bringing a gift bag of something and drinking it - especially at weddings.
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