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Best way to cut inheritance tax without gifting?
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tommydog40 said:Mojisola said:tommydog40 said:I understand the most tax efficient solution is to gift assets during ones lifetime, but if that is not an option, one most explore other mechanisms.Then she should be willing to pay for professional advice and not expect you to stump up the money.
Just doing a little maths here. Even if your Mum achieved very modest growth on her total assets of 2% a year, that would be £25,000 of growth p.a. alone. This growth has the potential to attract a further £10,000 IHT p.a.
So you "taking a while" to get the money together to pay for advice is like a first time buyer trying to keep up with a rising property market. The IHT bill will just grow and grow and grow.
Would your Mum not even consider only giving you money just out of the growth of her fund, going forward. You could try explaining that her current assets are "ringfenced" as so won't be touched, just any growth above, say £1.25M.
How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
Sea_Shell said:Just doing a little maths here. Even if your Mum achieved very modest growth on her total assets of 2% a year, that would be £25,000 of growth p.a. alone. This growth has the potential to attract a further £10,000 IHT p.a.
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tommydog40 said:Sea_Shell said:Just doing a little maths here. Even if your Mum achieved very modest growth on her total assets of 2% a year, that would be £25,000 of growth p.a. alone. This growth has the potential to attract a further £10,000 IHT p.a.
there is a time in life to accumulate wealth and a time to make use of it, your mother is well beyond the latter. If you don’t make good of wealth in your latter years the whole thing has been an absolute waste of time.If she truly believes people should stand on their own two feet and wants to avoid IHT, she would be leaving you a nominal sum and the rest to charity. You will also struggle to find a IFA who is willing to deal with you about your mother’s finances without her being involved.5 -
You will just have to tell your mother that without proper professional advice, there is no way to safely cut the IHT bill and as she is unwilling to pay for such advice, nothing more can be done.If you are querying your Council Tax band would you please state whether you are in England, Scotland or Wales3
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lincroft1710 said:You will just have to tell your mother that without proper professional advice, there is no way to safely cut the IHT bill and as she is unwilling to pay for such advice, nothing more can be done.
She's not going to be the one paying it.How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)1 -
OP, I feel for you.From this thread, it sounds like your Mum gets her kicks from adding up her pounds, schillings and pence and doesn't see any reason why HER money should be spent so that YOU get more of HER money. Unfortunately, until she has an epiphany, she is going to be helping Rishi pay off the deficit, to the tune of several hundred thousand £££££'s, rather than keeping HER money within the family.Once again, I feel for you.0
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OP, do you have any children of your own, mum's grandchildren?How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0
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Sea_Shell said:OP, do you have any children of your own, mum's grandchildren?
Just one idea, if I could miraculously persuade her to "gift" me some funds in my name, on provision that I don't deplete any of these funds in her lifetime (I would setup a different bank account for this). Would I then be free to "gift" her funds from this account in my name to pay all her bills, house repairs etc? Or would this be a gift with reserved benefit? An alternative may be to leave these funds in tact in this account and use my other bank account where my wages are paid into to pay her bills, house repairs etc. That way it would not be her money that I am gifting to her, so can't see it would fall under the reserved benefit rules.
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Murphy_The_Cat said:OP, I feel for you.From this thread, it sounds like your Mum gets her kicks from adding up her pounds, schillings and pence and doesn't see any reason why HER money should be spent so that YOU get more of HER money. Unfortunately, until she has an epiphany, she is going to be helping Rishi pay off the deficit, to the tune of several hundred thousand £££££'s, rather than keeping HER money within the family.Once again, I feel for you.2
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Just one idea, if I could miraculously persuade her to "gift" me some funds in my name, on provision that I don't deplete any of these funds in her lifetime (I would setup a different bank account for this). Would I then be free to "gift" her funds from this account in my name to pay all her bills, house repairs etc? Or would this be a gift with reserved benefit? An alternative may be to leave these funds in tact in this account and use my other bank account where my wages are paid into to pay her bills, house repairs etc. That way it would not be her money that I am gifting to her, so can't see it would fall under the reserved benefit rules.
Likewise - I didn't see anything about whether you live with her or your age. But again, if she needs care, the house will need to be sold to pay for it - unless you are also living there and are at least 60 (not impossible but unlikely if she's a mere 75 currently). Again there may be some understanding that your share in the house increases each year.
AND - do you just have a financial POA or do you also have one to deal with the medical side of it as well?
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