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Bankruptcy and child maintenance
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Frangelina said:Does anyone know if it’s okay for me to refuse child maintenance in order to avoid the IPA?
Stop trying to cheat the system; do everything honestly, complete the process and then you can move on.0 -
GeordieGeorge said:Frangelina said:Does anyone know if it’s okay for me to refuse child maintenance in order to avoid the IPA?
Stop trying to cheat the system; do everything honestly, complete the process and then you can move on.I appreciate our opinions will all be different on moral rights and wrongs but I was hoping for the facts ideally.0 -
Thanks again Sourcrates. I tried stoozing but when I tap “calculate” it just tells me I haven’t put in values for some of the things I’ve left at zero. I’ll try it on a different browser0
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I did it on laptop and it's fine:[tt][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Household Information[/b]Number of adults in household........... 1Number of children in household......... 1Number of cars owned.................... 0[b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 0Partners monthly income after tax....... 0Benefits................................ 1621Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 1621[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 0Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0Rent.................................... 500Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 118Electricity............................. 30Gas..................................... 18Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 33Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 10TV Licence.............................. 25Satellite/Cable TV...................... 35Internet Services....................... 18Groceries etc. ......................... 400Clothing................................ 100Petrol/diesel........................... 0Road tax................................ 0Car Insurance........................... 0Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 70Childcare/nursery....................... 0Other child related expenses............ 0Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0Buildings insurance..................... 0Contents insurance...................... 12Life assurance ......................... 0Other insurance......................... 0Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 30Haircuts................................ 30Entertainment........................... 40Holiday................................. 30Emergency fund.......................... 0[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 1499[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 0Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 0Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 0[/b][b]No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts[/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRHalifax CC.....................9914......0.........0Lloyds CC......................6780......0.........0Halifax OD.....................2560......0.........0Natwest L......................21186.....0.........0Natwest L......................764.......0.........0Admiral........................128.......0.........0Natwest OD.....................3495......0.........0[b]Total unsecured debts..........44827.....0.........- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 1,621Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,499Available for debt repayments........... 122Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 0[b]Amount left after debt repayments....... 122[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 0Total HP & Secured debt................. -0Total Unsecured debt.................... -44,827[b]Net Assets.............................. -44,827[/b][i][/i][/tt]0
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Even if I boost the amounts a bit, there’s no way I can cram an extra 400 on there - unless I’ve completely miss understood!0
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Frangelina said:Even if I boost the amounts a bit, there’s no way I can cram an extra 400 on there - unless I’ve completely miss understood!
-Nothing for emergency fund? You could put £20-£30
-Nothing for dental or prescriptions - or opticians? You should put something in for these.-Nothing for other child-related expenses? What about school uniform, pocket money, school trips, after school clubs/activities, babysitting...I’m sure there are a number of justifiable expenses.1 -
As I mentioned earlier, and sonic101 reiterates above, "child related expenses" "emergency fund" you budget for every little thing you spend money on, a morning take away coffee, a paper to read, packed lunches, school related items, uniform, pens, pencil cases, etc etc kids shoes, clothes, holidays, school trips etc.
You MUST have something in the emergency fund, what if your fridge goes south ? washer ? hoover ?
£50 quid minimum in here a month.
Your budget is nothing like complete, you must do it correctly as you will have to live on this for min one year, so it has to be right.
Biggest mistake people make is underbudgeting, then they start to struggle and can`t fathom out why .I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter0 -
Thanks, this is very helpful. I'm so absolutely useless with money I have no idea about this stuff.
We don't have any medical expenses because i don't work so it's all free. Her uniform I put in under clothes. How much can I put in for if the hoover etc. breaks?
He's never paid maintenance before which is why I can't see where we'll spend it. Because we've always got by without.0 -
Sorry - I see you've both suggested between 30-50 for emergency fund. I'm not handling this very well, I can barely read the comments properly!0
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Frangelina said:Sorry - I see you've both suggested between 30-50 for emergency fund. I'm not handling this very well, I can barely read the comments properly!
They may increase some areas, they may decrease others.
You have to look out for yourself now, the worst case scenario is you end up with an affordable (on paper) IPA, which is why its so incredibly important to get the figures right, just take your time, try and relax, there is no rush to do this.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter0
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