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Is Bankruptcy as Daunting and Scary as it seem
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Always be upfront and honest...it's really not worth the trouble it would cause you.
A family loan would not be paid back it would be written of...however if you have any "spare ".........1 -
it actually can't be written off as the payment is for the finance agreement...................... This debt problem solution is causing more stress that debt itself. I know i have to be honest and accurate, with my spends, but could I maybe show the money I'm sending to the car owner as Child support?
in the meantime i have compiled a SoA which now includes my wifes income and expenditure.[font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Household Information[/b]Number of adults in household........... 2Number of children in household......... 3Number of cars owned.................... [b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 1668.33Partners monthly income after tax....... 1256Benefits................................ 471.75Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 3396.08[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 0Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0Rent.................................... 425.88Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 108Electricity............................. 65Gas..................................... 65Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 60Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 100TV Licence.............................. 13.12Satellite/Cable TV...................... 50Internet Services....................... 0Groceries etc. ......................... 550Clothing................................ 150Petrol/diesel........................... 140Road tax................................ 1.75Car Insurance........................... 80.33Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 30Car parking............................. 10Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 900Other child related expenses............ 50Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 130Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0Buildings insurance..................... 0Contents insurance...................... 12Life assurance ......................... 25Other insurance......................... 0Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 100Haircuts................................ 100Entertainment........................... 75Holiday................................. 105Emergency fund.......................... 50[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 3396.08[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 0Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 0Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 0[/b][b]No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts[/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR[b]Total unsecured debts..........0.........0.........- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 3,396.08Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 3,396.08Available for debt repayments........... 0Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 0[b]Amount left after debt repayments....... 0[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 0Total HP & Secured debt................. -0Total Unsecured debt.................... -0[b]Net Assets.............................. 0[/b][i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.stoozing.com.Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]0 -
Whose name is the agreement in?
Surely they will be responsible for paying this?
Have a look on the sub board..IVA and DRO some threads on there may help0 -
The agreement is in a family members name so yes officially they are responsible for making payments towards this, However I and my wife are main users and pay for all running costs of the vehicle including the finance payments, and evidence of payments to my family member in my bank statements. Finance payments do not show on my bank statements, just payment to my family member weekly. So, would they question what it is for? Why I'm sending £44 a week to a family member0
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As it doesn't show as Finance payments on my bank account, surely it can be seen as just simply making a financial assistance payment between myself and family member.0
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You are not allowed to make these payments to family.
I have stressed it's important to be honest to the OR.
I'm out now...good luck1 -
Mart7379 said:As it doesn't show as Finance payments on my bank account, surely it can be seen as just simply making a financial assistance payment between myself and family member.
The budget you prepare for the IS and your DRO advisor is the official readout required for DRO acceptance.
The budget you actually use in normal day to day life can be as varied as you want to make it, you are not checked up on at all.
Most, if not all those who enter insolvency never stick rigidly to the original printed budget sheet, as I said, use your common sense here.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter1 -
Thanks, I am not going for Bankruptcy, DRO yes, and may actually wait until the laws are relaxed in May, before I venture into it. So in terms of the payment to a family member, I would not need to explain the reason behind this. And can disguise it into my expenditure. Sorry for repeating myself. We need the vehicle for commuting to and from work, and also getting kids to and from school0
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As long as you don't own the car, you'll be fine.1
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Nope definitely do not own the car.0
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