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We are paying for a new fence for our neighbour as it will benefit us as much as her and she cannot afford the layout.
We are going to make arrangements for her to pay the money back when work is completed. We are both in our 70s so there could be the possibility we were to die before it is paid back in full.
My question, if that were to happen could we expect her to pay our next of kin the remaining sum?
We are going to make arrangements for her to pay the money back when work is completed. We are both in our 70s so there could be the possibility we were to die before it is paid back in full.
My question, if that were to happen could we expect her to pay our next of kin the remaining sum?
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I am looking at my fence as i write. Last year the old one came down in a storm. I split the cost with my neighbour. As you say, it benefits you both equally.1
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Yes, the debt would be due to your estate (not necessarily your next of kin). However you would need to formalise this by drawing up a clear agreement of what is agreed, the timescale, interest etc, and get it signed and witnessed by both parties. Nothing on paper means that it is unlikely that the debt would ever be repaid following your demise.
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Unless it's a huge fence I wouldn't bother with the hassle to formalize a loan that's presumably only a few hundred £. You're splitting the bill 50/50 and she's repaying her half over time?
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Herzlos said:Unless it's a huge fence I wouldn't bother with the hassle to formalize a loan that's presumably only a few hundred £. You're splitting the bill 50/50 and she's repaying her half over time?0
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£3K? That's a huge fence....No free lunch, and no free laptop0
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macman said:£3K? That's a huge fence....0
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If you both pass away first - had you considered letting them off the remaining debt as a parting gift? I imagine it would be likely that you're both not going anywhere tomorrow - and the likelihood you'll be around for a little while yet. What loan term were you thinking of? It may be by the time the 'time' comes - there might only be a small balance left outstanding anyway (and more than likely you'll both still be around by the time the loan is repaid anyway)0
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I agree with the comments above that the only way to ensure it gets paid is to document the loan agreement. That way you (or your estate) can enforce it if your neighbours don't pay for whatever reason. It's probably not worth the hassle for the amount of money involved, but if you absolutely have to make sure that the money gets paid back under all circumstances, then you will need a loan agreement to have any reasonable chance of getting it enforced in court.1
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Does the neighbour want the new fence?0
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Presumably it is a shared boundary so you are splitting the cost 50/50? If you want to ensure your estate gets the money back then you need a written loan agreement but that is only any good if your executors are willing to go to court to enforce it. What are the arrangements for her to repay? At 70 that does not mean you are on your last legs so entirely possible she will repay the £1500 in your lifetime.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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