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Exiting joint mortgage and mortgaging solo - advise on how to do this.
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Matchermike
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Hi All, i'm hoping someone can point me in the right direction with some advice please.
I currently have a joint mortgage with my ex, who has now moved out so we are looking to settle up. Our house is valued at 400k and we have a 210k mortgage. I can't afford to pay her £95k equity and take on a £210k mortgage myself (i could afford mortgage, but not raise her equity share). So i'm resigned to selling up and taking on solo mortgage for a new property.
Can anyone advise how best to work out what i can afford, and from where? Should i contact my current mortgage provider and explain the situation to them and get a figure from them? Or go to a new broker, or lender and explain and see what they offer? I'm hoping to sell within 6 months, so want to know what i can afford to buy, and start getting an idea of whats out there.
This is my first mortgage so i don't really know what i'm doing!
Thanks
Mike
I currently have a joint mortgage with my ex, who has now moved out so we are looking to settle up. Our house is valued at 400k and we have a 210k mortgage. I can't afford to pay her £95k equity and take on a £210k mortgage myself (i could afford mortgage, but not raise her equity share). So i'm resigned to selling up and taking on solo mortgage for a new property.
Can anyone advise how best to work out what i can afford, and from where? Should i contact my current mortgage provider and explain the situation to them and get a figure from them? Or go to a new broker, or lender and explain and see what they offer? I'm hoping to sell within 6 months, so want to know what i can afford to buy, and start getting an idea of whats out there.
This is my first mortgage so i don't really know what i'm doing!
Thanks
Mike
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Lenders have online calculators which will provide an indication of what you could potentially borrow.
Suggest you contact a mortgage broker to guide you in finding the right product for you.
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Matchermike said:Hi All, i'm hoping someone can point me in the right direction with some advice please.
I currently have a joint mortgage with my ex, who has now moved out so we are looking to settle up. Our house is valued at 400k and we have a 210k mortgage. I can't afford to pay her £95k equity and take on a £210k mortgage myself (i could afford mortgage, but not raise her equity share). So i'm resigned to selling up and taking on solo mortgage for a new property.
Can anyone advise how best to work out what i can afford, and from where? Should i contact my current mortgage provider and explain the situation to them and get a figure from them? Or go to a new broker, or lender and explain and see what they offer? I'm hoping to sell within 6 months, so want to know what i can afford to buy, and start getting an idea of whats out there.
This is my first mortgage so i don't really know what i'm doing!
Thanks
Mike
As a rule of thumb you can normally borrow a max of 4.5 x salary (dependant on your personal circumstances) but borrow what you feel comfortable borrowing
Value of property - £400k
Outstanding mortgage - £210k
Equity - £190k
Dont forget you then need to deduct selling fees; solicitors fees etc out of this before you divide the remaining amount between the two of you
Also is there any early repayment charge on your current mortgage?MFW 2025 #50: £1139.75/£600007/03/25: Mortgage: £67,000.00
12/06/25: Mortgage: £65,000.00
18/01/25: Mortgage: £68,500.14
27/12/24: Mortgage: £69,278.38
27/12/24: Debt: £0 🥳😁
27/12/24: Savings: £12,000
07/03/25: Savings: £16,5000 -
@Matchermike
To get a ballpark estimate of how much you can borrow -
- estimate 4-5x your income tops. The exact multiple will depend on the lender, LTV, your income etc- play around with a couple of mainstream lender affordability calculators (search "<lender name> for intermediaries affordability calculator") to see what they throw up- talk to a broker to get a realistic idea of how much you may be able to borrow.
Good luck!I am a Mortgage Adviser - You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a mortgage adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
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How much can you afford a month.
As said a 4.5 X will be a ball park starting point for what a lender will give you.
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