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Hamper Ideas: Couple's Last Year 'Alone'...

My friend and her husband are due to have their first child in April. I am looking at doing them a joint hamper with stuff in for them to enjoy their last Christmas as a couple, i.e. without kids!

They also won't have any parents around as her parents have moved to Scotland and his parents are in Spain for Christmas, so it'll literally be time to themselves!

I want to put something together for them with bits and pieces that will just make it a little bit special...

They are mid twenties. I don't really want to include anything alcholic, because of her pregnancy and she doesn't drink anyway, also I don't think it fair that he should get drink if she doesn't...

Any ideas....?

Comments

  • stimpy27
    stimpy27 Posts: 244 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    How about any of the following........

    Nice massage oil
    Relaxing bath oil
    Babysitting voucher (for when they need time to themselves in the future)
    Pregnancy journal for their thoughts and feelings
    Book about pregnancy for Dads (Ebay)
    Non alcoholic cocktail/bubbly and cheap champagne glasses (ikea)
    Large bar of chocolate!!!
  • jockettuk
    jockettuk Posts: 5,809 Forumite
    oh and a little note on how to enjoy the peace and quiet because it aint gonna happen again.

    a nice dvd that they could both sit and enjoy a non child one as thats probably what they will be watching next year lol
    Those we love don't go away,They walk beside us every day,Unseen, unheard, but always near,
    Still loved, still missed and very dear
    Our thoughts are ever with you,Though you have passed away.And those who loved you dearly,
    Are thinking of you today.
  • scuzz
    scuzz Posts: 1,995 Forumite
    Watch out with some massage/ essential oils as they can be dangerous during pregnancy. Don't know which ones to avoid, so ask a professional
    Comping, Clicking & Saving for Change
  • sethsgran
    sethsgran Posts: 2,855 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Home made truffles and a bottle of Shloer
    Nothing Changes if Nothing Changes
  • keelykat
    keelykat Posts: 3,341 Forumite
    Aaww that's a lovely idea!

    I like the idea of night in kind of hamper-with maybe a few food treats ie choccy, posh crisps, sweets etc and a dvd..... a non alcoholic drink of some kind... Some bubble bath/bath stuff for a pamper sesson before cosying down on the settee! Candles maybe.... hmmm.....

    keely.
    Mommy to Elliot (5) and Lewis (born xmas eve 11!)
  • NBirdy
    NBirdy Posts: 1,398 Forumite
    Ooo candles are a good idea! I quite miss them but now we have dd it's too dangerous.
  • li'l_p
    li'l_p Posts: 797 Forumite
    Thanks for the ideas...! I've started gathering some bits for a relaxing type hamper for them both. I am going to get some of those battery operated tealights so that they can have 'safe' candles, so even after the baby is born - they can still have the effect but without the danger!

    I am just looking at getting the a little game - not necessarily a sex game, but something that they can play together that would be fun and get them to enjoy each other and the time they have together before baby arrives!
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