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Advice on Debt

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  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,487 Forumite
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    Hi

    If you've accrued 42K in debt, you have spent it on something.

    What precisely? Until you know that, you will not be able to address the underlying problem.

    You live in a flat, for example. There is no building insurance, which suggests it's paid by the management company but there is no management fee or contribution to a sinking fund anywhere in your SOA.

    You need to go back over your SOA with your bank statements and credit card records handy and work out a realistic budget, which includes clothing, replacing household goods,  presents, holidays, child costs (do you NEVER ever go out for the day, have to fund a school activity).

    Then come back or speak to a debt charity like stepchange (not a debt company). 
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
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