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Want to be debt free...where to start?
Anyway, on to the story I have spent most of my adult life in debt and I am sick of it. I am ready to work towards reducing and clearing my debt. I have looked at reducing outgoings have gone through each debt and secured interest free where possible or low rates. In fact my where to start title is slightly misleading but I still would love some direction on where to go from now.
I have what I call fixed payments that are via DD but also have lots of smaller debts such as arrears on water bill, service charge on my flat etc. I am not sure where to focus paying off. In my head the sensible me thinks reduce the debt with the most interest (currently that is a nearly 8k credit card with high interest rate). Then I think maybe I should get rid of the smaller debt to free up some of the monthly outgoings as they will be paid of quicker. Most of those are either no interest or utility arrears.
I would be interested in peoples opinions on how to tackle this.
Below is my debt - please don't judge, its crazy and in my opinion quite disgusting.
| 7847 | Barclaycard |
| 19625 | Loan (lease extension on property) |
| 6329 | HSBC Loan |
| 10594 | Halifax credit card |
| 1491 | Hitachi Kitchen |
300 water arrears
2000 - HMRC
My salary is £60k PA with sale earnings on top. These can be pretty sizeable - lets say on a good month which I will be having for the next 3 months around 2.5k take home per month. My husband clears about £350 per week
I look forward to some sound advice and tips
Thanks in advance
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Some of those debts are priority so arranging a repayment plan for HMRC, service charges and water arrears would be my first priority if I were in your situation. I would then tackle the debt with the highest interest. You have a decent salary so why do you think this debt has occurred? Posting an soa will get you more detailed responses.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Thanks for the response.
The debt has occurred due to complete spending beyond my means. I have two children and my husband only started working recently so I have been supporting us all. I think part of it is also because I earn a good salary and work hard that I can spend what I like and 'deserve' the holidays, meals out etc because I work so hard. I will look for the SOA.
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Is there an SOA template with explanation on how to fill it out? Thanks0
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Hi @kittykatz,
welcome to the forum. You have already made a great start! As above, do an SOA. It might be helpful to post it here too, as you may get some advice on savings you can make, or just some opinions about priorities etc!I agree with enthusiasticsaver, you need to pay your priority debts first; HMRC, water arrears and the service charge are probably your priorities.You have a good income, so if you really focussed, could probably pay it quite quickly.I’d be inclined to pay them from smallest to largest (after the priorities), as it can have some great motivational benefits. This is called a debt snowball.The debt avalanche method (paying debts in order from the highest interest rate first) will save you some money in terms of saved interest, but how much depends on your rates and how long it will take you to pay off.You need to set a budget, and try your best to stick to it. Zero based budgeting helps me to allocate the money I need for the month, and then all the rest goes to debt.I also follow a few accounts on social media that help keep me inspired and focused. I really like the finance bar and the money fox on Instagram
good luck!https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6086606/debt-free-by-23/p1True LBM, December 2019 = £32934. Current Debt = £12762. 1% Challenge = 61.1%. #51 3-6 Month EF Challenge = £1200/£6000
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Thanks MidsHollie
The snowball method I think suits me so I see reductions quicker and, like you say will give me motivation. Its interesting you have both called the water, HMRC debts priority where as I wouldn't of said that as I do not pay interest on them. My way of thinking is also down to (I am being honest) the lack of respect I have for money, the way I spend and the companies I owe it too. I am really trying to change this bad attitude.
I will get an SOA up.
Thank you so very much or taking the time to reply
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Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance
Household Information
Number of adults in household 2
Number of children in household 2
Number of cars owned 2
Monthly Income Details
Monthly income after tax 3500
Partners monthly income after tax 1516
Benefits 0
Other income 927b
Total monthly income 5943b
Monthly Expense Details
Mortgage 977
Secured/HP loan repayments 6353
Rent 0
Management charge (leasehold property) 132
Council tax 112
Electricity 83
Gas 0
Oil 0
Water rates 25
Telephone (land line) 0
Mobile phone 10
TV Licence 132
Satellite/Cable TV 0
Internet Services 25
Groceries etc 400
Clothing 40
Petrol/diesel 114
Road tax 25
Car Insurance 0
Car maintenance (including MOT) 0
Car parking 7
Other travel 0
Childcare/nursery 900
Other child related expenses 0
Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc) 0
Pet insurance/vet bills 0
Buildings insurance 0
Contents insurance 0
Life assurance 0
Other insurance 75
Presents (birthday, christmas etc) 20
Haircuts 15
Entertainment 0
Holiday 0
Emergency fund 0
service charge 2nd property 168
storage 20
charity giving 13
car lease 156
Dentist 23b
Total monthly expenses 39885
Assets
Cash 0
House value (Gross) 620000
Shares and bonds 0
Car(s) 0
Other assets 0b
Total Assets 620000
Secured & HP Debts
Description Debt Monthly APR
Mortgage 221000 977 1.81
rental property mortg 216000 635 3.49
Total secured & HP debts 437000--
Unsecured Debts
Description Debt Monthly APR
HSBC Loan 6329 126 6.3
Barclaycard CC 8403 178 6.9
Loan 19625 283 6.9
Mum 4000 0 0
service charge arrear 935 78 0
water arrears 300 0 0
Kitchen 1491 106 0
Halifax CC 10594 109 0
Total unsecured debts 51677 881 -
Monthly Budget Summary
Total monthly income 5,943
Expenses (including HP & secured debts) 3,9885
Available for debt repayments 1,9545
Monthly UNsecured debt repayments 881b
Amount left after debt repayments 1,0735
Personal Balance Sheet Summary
Total assets (things you own) 620,000
Total HP & Secured debt -437,000
Total Unsecured debt -51,677
Net Assets 131,323
iCreated using the SOA calculator at wwwstoozingcom
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Hi Kitty, well done on getting your SOA up.It looks like it could do with some adjusting, as the figures don’t quite add up (eg, tv liscence says 132, but I’m sure you mean £13.20). There are lots of round numbers here. Please try and make it as accurate as you can for the moment as it will help you figure out exactly what is happening to your money better.There are some things missing. If you have dependants and a mortgage, you really need to have life insurance.Your holidays, gifts and entertainment amounts are low or zero. You never go on holiday or for a day out? Is £240 per year realistic spending for gifts?There is nothing budgeted for car maintainence etc.What I would recommend is having a look over your spending for the last 3, 6, or 12 months, however much you can face. If you can’t face that, start documenting all of your spending from today. Allocate them out in to categories and your SOA will become much more accurate.You need to start some sinking funds for annual expenses. That way you can budget better and save on interest by paying things like insurance up front.There is a guy called Dave Ramsey. He has an ego the size of the country he is from and is a bit preachy and deletions. His advice can be a bit ‘broad brush’ but is a really great starting point. He suggests becoming debt free in a series of steps, by starting to save a $1000 emergency fund (that is only for emergencies!), then paying off debt by paying tree minimum payments on all debt but the smallest, and putting all other available money towards the smallest debt. Then repeating until all the debt is paid off. It’s the way that a lot of people on here are doing it.
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6086606/debt-free-by-23/p1True LBM, December 2019 = £32934. Current Debt = £12762. 1% Challenge = 61.1%. #51 3-6 Month EF Challenge = £1200/£6000
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Do you need the BTL? Assume the BTL is generating about £300/m gross but unless you've got insurance, these can turn nasty quickly.
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@MidsHollie thanks for the feedback. I did an mse budget planner a few months ago so will take the detail off there. You’re right some of detail is not accurate. Only put in the details that the SOA asked for which is a bit silly really ! Will look at Dave Ramsey’s suggestions.Thanks again0
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@Galloglass it’s a long story but I’m stuck with it for now.0
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