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Separating and worried

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Hi, my wife and I are separating. She is buying me out of our property leaving me with a deposit of £60k. I’m 44 and will be looking at borrowing 60-80k for a property. I earn 25k , have a credit card but it’s clear and I have 2 kids (9 & 5) who will be living with their mum and we have agreed to no maintenance (as I will be having them after school and feeing them every night as well as alternate weekends.) Now I am worried that my age and size of mortgage required will put possible lenders off. Read some right horror stories! 

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  • I bank with First Direct are they a good choice for a mortgage? 
  • I personally don't see the problem as you have a good deposit and you are looking for not expensive house. Should be ok. Go to broker and ask questions.
  • MWT
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    As long as 'buying you out' of the existing property includes releasing you from any mortgage on that property so you are free and clear then it all looks good.
    Pick a mortgage broker, there are plenty on the forum, just message one of them and they will help you find the right lender for your needs.
  • My husband and I got our first mortgage when he was 42. You should be fine, good deposit also. Good luck! 
  • That affordability looks as though it should be fine as long as you are removed from the other mortgage 
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