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Am I stupid even trying?
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getmore4less said:Carl2510 said:getmore4less said:Forget what they will lend you as long as it is more than you need.
Work out what you can afford.
£40,500 income will be net £2,500-£2,900
£188k 5y fix <2% £300pm is interest decide how fast you want to pay down the debt(savings)
20y £960pm
25y £800pm
30y £700pm
35y £630pm
40y £570pm
(longer term and overpay is better than shorter term more flexibility)
Are you renting now? how much is that?
How much do you save every month?She currently lives with parents so saving £1K a month and I also let whatever build up in my bank what I don’t spend as I don’t spend a lot, don’t drink or smoke. Don’t buy clothes unless I have to my only expenditure is Golf.
she has no debt no loans. I have the one loan my car which will be paid off in Jan.
With £80k between you, if that £235k place the house you want you will walk it unless you go crazy buying new stuff to put in it.
Throw £500pm each into a pot to cover the mortgage(35y/40y) and main bills overpay if any left. loads left to live off.
When pay goes up or you find you are not spending you can look at the overpayment situation. £100pm will knock off 5 years, £200pm 10y.
got my MA doing a AIP this week so hopefully get a solid idea of what I’m allowed to borrow then can see if it’s worth taking the plunge and going for a more expensive house.0 -
What are you paying him every month?0
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getmore4less said:What are you paying him every month?0
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Not sure you understand what I am trying to tease out of you.
what does your current housing cost you?.
You have housing costs now, that is your base cost that you are topping up by moving to a bigger place
You are worried you may not be able to afford but the reality is is not going to be a lot more than you are paying(£900pm) for the place you are in now if you take out a 35/40 year loan on the new places and swap your brother for your OH
From your posts you don't seem to have any idea how much you housing costs or how much you save each month, might be a good time to start some proper budgeting in preparation for this moving in together situation.
That might be leading to your worry you just don't know your finances.
From the numbers you have given and your lifestyle its a doddle.0 -
getmore4less said:Not sure you understand what I am trying to tease out of you.
what does your current housing cost you?.
You have housing costs now, that is your base cost that you are topping up by moving to a bigger place
You are worried you may not be able to afford but the reality is is not going to be a lot more than you are paying(£900pm) for the place you are in now if you take out a 35/40 year loan on the new places and swap your brother for your OH
From your posts you don't seem to have any idea how much you housing costs or how much you save each month, might be a good time to start some proper budgeting in preparation for this moving in together situation.
That might be leading to your worry you just don't know your finances.
From the numbers you have given and your lifestyle its a doddle.My main worry was just always is it possible to lend such an amount so close to my max borrowing which a lot of you have said yes.0
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