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Buzzard1985
Buzzard1985 Posts: 200 Forumite
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Rewording.

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  • ToxicWomble
    ToxicWomble Posts: 882 Forumite
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    So they want to raise a further grievance for the use of a minor swear word following a previous grievance not being upheld ?

  • Buzzard1985
    Buzzard1985 Posts: 200 Forumite
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    Sorry.   Person A raised a grievance on Bs comment. In response to the racial comment, A swore.   Nothing to prove the racial but everybody agrees with the swear.
  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,352 Forumite
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    Sorry, still not getting this ... 

    Person B said / did something, which A found racially offensive?

    Person A raised a grievance about this? 

    This grievance was dismissed because there was no evidence? 

    A swore - when? 

    B wants to raise their own grievance against A because A swore? 

    B should rise above, IMO. They're never going to be best friends, but B should be aiming for a polite and professional relationship. You don't get that if you keep raising grievances. 
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  • jonnygee2
    jonnygee2 Posts: 2,086 Forumite
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    B should rise above, IMO. They're never going to be best friends, but B should be aiming for a polite and professional relationship. You don't get that if you keep raising grievances. 

    Completely agree.

  • oh_really
    oh_really Posts: 907 Forumite
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    Clear as mud. Is this an indicator of why, perhaps the grievance fell?
  • JamoLew
    JamoLew Posts: 1,800 Forumite
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    Reading other threads by the OP -- they aren't a big fan of explaining things very well
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