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One income family of four - can we get ahead even after pay cuts?
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Well done! They are great and such lovely fabric.3
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Well done @Bluegreen143. They look brilliant! That was some task to take on for a first project! Look forward to seeing the other pair tomorrow!
Have you decided what you're going to make next?3 -
Wow, those look fab. Well done! Mumtoomany.Frugal Living Challenge 2025.3
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They look lovely, lucky Bambi!3
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One income, home educating family2 -
Pyjamas look fab, you are very talented! It must be such a nice feeling to look at something your kids are wearing and know you made it for them.
Wishing you and family a very happy Christmas - I know it's not how any of us wanted things but enjoy your day and time together.
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He said not 'Thou shalt not be tempested, thou shalt not be travailed, thou shalt not be dis-eased'; but he said, 'Thou shalt not be overcome.' Julian of Norwich2 -
Awww thank you everyone for the lovely kind comments. I’ll post a pic of Monkey’s later when I’m done. Honestly up close there are plenty of mistakes but I’m very proud of learning a new skill. One of my friends was today lamenting that she didn’t get round to taking a sewing course on either of her maternity leaves as it was an ambition of hers. I’m sure there are great courses out there but I also think there’s a lot to be said for the “pick an ambitious project and watch lots of YouTube videos” method of learning as you go. Not least because it’s cheaper!
Got a big bag of hand me downs for Bambi from a friend yesterday - jammies, leggings and dresses in her current size and as many clothes again in the next size and even a few in 4-5. And then today a different friend gave me a dressing up dress and Christmas dress for her plus a couple of skirts in the next side for her. I think between hand me downs and gifts I’ve clothed her completely in age 2-3 except buying her a warm coat (eBay £5), her waterproofs from Lidl and a pack of 10 pants! Sadly I don’t know anyone with an older boy to get hand me downs from Eli (he had some from a colleague when I worked but we’ve lost touch), I even find it hard to get charity shop or second hand in his size (going into 5-6 now). I find that it’s all smart clothes cos they don’t get much wear whereas comfy stuff like jeans, joggers etc wear out so can’t be passed on.Part time working mum | Married in 2014 | DS born 2015 & DD born 2018
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6542225/stopping-the-backsliding-a-family-of-four-no-longer-living-beyond-their-means/p1?new=1
Consumer debt free!
Mortgage: -£128,033
Savings: £6,050
- Emergency fund £1,515
- New kitchen £556
- December £420
- Holiday £3,427
- Bills £132
Total joint pension savings: £55,4251 -
Having made PJs @Bluegreen143 you could probably have a go at making things like joggers, they are very similar - as long as you can get some cheap material. Wouldn't want to try jeans though as they would be quite difficult to sew on most home machines. I think part of the problem is that boys are much harder on their clothes than girls!
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@joedenise the fabric is the problem - the stuff I used for jammies cost much more than just buying cheap supermarket clothes. I wonder about buying men’s joggers in a charity shop and cutting them apart to make them with though.Here’s the second pair now, both all safely wrapped up for Christmas Eve ☺️Part time working mum | Married in 2014 | DS born 2015 & DD born 2018
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6542225/stopping-the-backsliding-a-family-of-four-no-longer-living-beyond-their-means/p1?new=1
Consumer debt free!
Mortgage: -£128,033
Savings: £6,050
- Emergency fund £1,515
- New kitchen £556
- December £420
- Holiday £3,427
- Bills £132
Total joint pension savings: £55,4254 -
Lovely, well done!3
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