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WHERE'S the party????

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  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,551 Forumite
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    Night GingerSte,
    OK - dilemma time if anyone's still awake....
    if you kind of wanted to be more than friends with a best mate and you were 80% sure they felt the same way would you go for it or just hang about hoping they did?? just hypothetical you understand...
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    GingerSte wrote: »
    Well peeps I'm going to hit the sack aswell.

    I may not be around next saturday, as I'm doing a night shift in Manchester, but I'll try and say hello at least early doors.

    See you later. Remember: no shaving...
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  • skint_spice
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    tigtag02 wrote: »
    Unless she drinks it through the night of crimble eve :eek: :eek:

    maybe if DS did this it would stop him getting up at the crack of dawn!
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    OK - dilemma time if anyone's still awake....
    if you kind of wanted to be more than friends with a best mate and you were 80% sure they felt the same way would you go for it or just hang about hoping they did?? just hypothetical you understand...

    Someone has to make the first move. It just depends which of the two of you are braver. There are risks involved, but you don't need me to tell you that.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    maybe if DS did this it would stop him getting up at the crack of dawn!

    Try excluding more light from his room. Get him George W Bush curtains - you know, really thick ones...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,551 Forumite
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    ZTD wrote: »
    Someone has to make the first move. It just depends which of the two of you are braver. There are risks involved, but you don't need me to tell you that.

    I know but the old fashioned part of me says it should be the bloke! still nothing ventured... just worried if I am reading signs wrong it could ruin things.
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  • skint_spice
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    ZTD wrote: »
    Try excluding more light from his room. Get him George W Bush curtains - you know, really thick ones...

    it can be pitch black but on that morning he'll still be screaming "he's been, santa's been".
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    I know but the old fashioned part of me says it should be the bloke! still nothing ventured... just worried if I am reading signs wrong it could ruin things.

    Yes, but the old-fashioned part of the bloke says he shouldn't be making a move on his best mate.

    It's always been the women who have chosen the men - sometimes the men can't be relied on to get the hint to try something and be allowed and need to just be told...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    it can be pitch black but on that morning he'll still be screaming "he's been, santa's been".

    Perhaps Santa needs to pay a visit with brandy the night before. For all of you...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,551 Forumite
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    ZTD wrote: »
    sometimes the men can't be relied on to get the hint to try something and be allowed and need to just be told...

    Understatement of the century! ok, I will go for it, well maybe... expect an update tomorrow with " um, well, just bottled it...".
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