Child Maintenance

Comms69

£340 is the correct figure based upon what you've said. 

Why are the CMS involved? This seems like something quite easily calculated between the two of you. 

If you want more contact, take it to court.

grimreaper

She’s not amicable at all she’s narcissistic unfortunately that’s why I left her. It’s all a game she takes home 15k a month and demands child Maintenance. Says it all really, everyone who knows what’s going on , on both sides says she’s out of order. 

grimreaper

The money will go to her new fella who has now quit his job to be a house husband. Controlling again

grimreaper

I can’t take it to court, she can afford the best lawyers in the country. She would would simply out spend me to win. Like said “ you better get a f ing lawyer and the courts always side with woman “ 

Comms69

grimreaper said:

She’s not amicable at all she’s narcissistic unfortunately that’s why I left her. It’s all a game she takes home 15k a month and demands child Maintenance. Says it all really, everyone who knows what’s going on , on both sides says she’s out of order. 

Well i'm going to disagree with you. 

Yes she takes home 15k a month. Fine. But you have a duty t support your children, doesnt matter if it's £30 a month or £300, or £3000, you pay what you need to, proudly. 

Comms69

grimreaper said:

The money will go to her new fella who has now quit his job to be a house husband. Controlling again

grimreaper said:

I can’t take it to court, she can afford the best lawyers in the country. She would would simply out spend me to win. Like said “ you better get a f ing lawyer and the courts always side with woman “ 

Doesnt matter where it goes.

Trust me, the best lawyers in the country wont matter. 

Courts put the kids first. There's actually very little a solicitor adds to this. These judges aren't there to listen to points of law, they are there to put the kids first. I'd be very confident of getting those extra two days as courts would see no reason why a childminder would be better placed for the kids develpement than their father.