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Help and advice please

Hi,
I'm new to the forum and looking for some help and advice please. The debt has accumulated over a period of 7 years (no judgements please) and the majority of which has been caused by gambling on line. My husband has been fully supportive and we just want to get things sorted out. I have taken all the necessary steps to prevent myself gambling (betblocker etc). We are totally fed up at paying out each month and never having any to show for it. 

Have been making the payments so far, with minimum payments being made to the credits card. I accept total responsibility for the state that we are in and realise how much I have to loose (family). I have not considered an IVA and doubt if I would be eligible for one considering that I am just about making the payments. 

Any help, advice or recommendations would be greatly appreciated. We don't go out, smoke or drink and the third adult is out son, aged 24 who has a basic wage. 
Many thanks
Shotom. 


Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

Household Information[/b]
Number of adults in household........... 3
Number of children in household......... 0
Number of cars owned.................... 2

Monthly Income Details[/b]
Monthly income after tax................ 2084.76
Partners monthly income after tax....... 1760.31
Benefits................................ 0
Other income............................ 0
Total monthly income.................... 3845.07

Monthly Expense Details[/b]
Mortgage................................ 292
Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 289.10
Rent.................................... 0
Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
Council tax............................. 125
Electricity............................. 80
Gas..................................... 40
Oil..................................... 0
Water rates............................. 47.56
Telephone (land line)................... 20
Mobile phone............................ 50
TV Licence.............................. 12.83
Satellite/Cable TV...................... 61
Internet Services....................... 8
Groceries etc. ......................... 440 (this is over a month and for three adults including lunches for work)
Clothing................................ 20
Petrol/diesel........................... 100
Road tax................................ 10
Car Insurance........................... 60
Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 25
Car parking............................. 0
Other travel............................ 0
Childcare/nursery....................... 0
Other child related expenses............ 0
Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 20
Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
Buildings insurance..................... 15
Contents insurance...................... 5
Life assurance ......................... 18.13
Other insurance......................... 15
Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 50
Haircuts................................ 30
Entertainment........................... 20
Holiday................................. 0
Emergency fund.......................... 100
Trade union............................. 13.7
HCPC.................................... 7.5
Total monthly expenses.................. 1974.82


Assets[/b]
Cash.................................... 0
House value (Gross)..................... 132000
Shares and bonds........................ 0
Car(s).................................. 5000
Other assets............................ 0
Total Assets............................ 137000


Secured & HP Debts
Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
Mortgage...................... 111000...(292)......0 (Interest only mortgage due to come to terms January 2030)
Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 4884.12..(289.1)....3.3 (Car for work)
Total secured & HP debts...... 115884.12

Unsecured Debts
Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
MBNA 1.........................6726.76...136.7.....27.93
MBNA 2.........................6291.39...97.53.....25.93
MBNA 3 ........................4627.41...122.5.....20.93
Halifax PL2....................16460.....454.1.....3.44
Halifax PL1....................4225.89...152.6.....14.9
Overdraft......................298.76....0.........0
Paypal.........................2198.67...100.......19.9
Barclaycard 2..................8577.06...192.9.....17.68
Barclaycard 1..................3925.4....136.3.....26.75
Halifax........................3846.28...12.8......30.2
Lloyds.........................1973.5....50........22.44
Tesco 2........................1340.19...44.64.....26.89
Tesco 1........................9243.28...250.......18.9
HSBC...........................5472.94...150.......21.9
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Comments

  • Willing2Learn
    Willing2Learn Posts: 6,294 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    edited 22 February 2020 at 4:00PM
    Your SOA is incomplete.  Please try to copy & paste the SOA in its entirety.

    Edit :  And welcome to the forum :)
    I work within the voluntary sector, supporting vulnerable people to rebuild their lives.

    I love my job

    :smiley:
  • ceb1995
    ceb1995 Posts: 388 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 100 Posts Name Dropper I've been Money Tipped!
    You should be able to work on cutting down the grocery budget by switching to cheaper options. I'd be cancelling the tv when you can, you can always take out netflix and now tv and you're still saving over £40 a month there, the same with switching to cheaper phone contracts. You haven't mentioned if your son contributes anything? 
  • Sea_Shell
    Sea_Shell Posts: 10,079 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Do you have any plan on how to repay your mortgage capital in 10 years time?  
    How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)
  • Sorry please find completed SOA:

    Statement of Affairs & Personal Balance Sheet

    Summary

    Monthly Budget SummaryAmount(£)
    Total monthly income3,845.07
    Monthly expenses (incl. HP & secured loans)1,974.82
    Available for debt repayments1,870.25
    UNsecured debt repayments1,900.07
    Amount short for making debt repayments-29.82

    Personal Balance Sheet SummaryAmount(£)
    Total Assets (things you own)137,000
    Total Secured & HP Debt-115,884.12
    Total Unsecured Debt-75,207.53
    Net Assets-54,091.65

    Household Information

    Number of adults in household3
    Number of children in household0
    Number of cars owned2

    Income, Expense, Debt & Asset Details

    IncomeAmount(£)
    Monthly income after tax2084.76
    Partners monthly income1760.31
    Benefits0
    Other income0
    Total monthly income3845.07

    ExpensesAmount(£)
    Mortgage292
    Secured/HP loan payments289.1
    Rent0
    Management charge (leasehold property)0
    Council tax125
    Electricity80
    Gas40
    Oil0
    Water Rates47.56
    Telephone (land line)20
    Mobile phone50
    TV Licence12.83
    Satellite/Cable TV61
    Internet services8
    Groceries etc.440
    Clothing20
    Petrol/diesel100
    Road tax10
    Car Insurance60
    Car maintenance (including MOT)25
    Car Parking0
    Other travel0
    Childcare/nursery0
    Other child related expenses0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentists, opticians etc.)20
    Pet Insurance/Vet bills0
    Buildings Insurance15
    Contents Insurance5
    Life Assurance18.13
    Other Insurance15
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc.)50
    Haircuts30
    Entertainment20
    Holiday0
    Emergency Fund100
    Trade union13.7
    HCPC7.5
    Total monthly expenses1974.82

    Secured & HP Debt DescriptionDebt(£)Monthly(£)APR(%)
    Mortgage111000(292)0
    Hire Purchase (HP) Debt4884.12(289.1)3.3
    Secured & HP Debt totals115884.12--

    Unsecured Debt DescriptionDebt(£)Monthly(£)APR(%)
    MBNA 16726.76136.727.93
    MBNA 26291.3997.5325.93
    MBNA 34627.41122.520.93
    Halifax PL216460454.13.44
    Halifax PL14225.89152.614.9
    Overdraft298.7600
    Paypal2198.6710019.9
    Barclaycard 28577.06192.917.68
    Barclaycard 13925.4136.326.75
    Halifax3846.2812.830.2
    Lloyds1973.55022.44
    Tesco 21340.1944.6426.89
    Tesco 19243.2825018.9
    HSBC5472.9415021.9
    Unsecured Debt totals75207.531900.0700000000002-

    Asset DescriptionValue (£)
    Cash0
    House Value (Gross)132000
    Shares and bonds0
    Car(s)5000
    Other assets (e.g. endowments, jewellery etc)0
    Total Assets137000

    Comments on the results

    You do not have enough monthly income to meet your expenses and your minimum monthly debt repayments. Seek ways to increase your income and/or reduce your expenditure by £29.82. Whatever your results show, it always pays to seek advice or comments from others. Why not post your SOA details on our Debt Management discussion board or on your preferred discussion forum elsewhere. Thankyou for using the SOA Calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk
  • Are you really only paying £12.80 per month for your Halifax unsecured debt?
    I work within the voluntary sector, supporting vulnerable people to rebuild their lives.

    I love my job

    :smiley:
  • Hi Sea_Shell, 
    I am hoping that if I can get my debt cleared in 5 years then that leaves 5 years to pay off the mortgage. 
    Thanks
  • Hi ceb1995,
    I am in contract with Virgin just now and this is due to end in August 2020. The cost of the mobiles is for 3 mobiles and my son's contributes £200 when he can but has not long started in his job.
    Thanks
  • Hi Willing2Learn,
    Did say I was new to this :) , thanks for spotting error, 3rd attempt at SOA.

    Statement of Affairs & Personal Balance Sheet

    Summary

    Monthly Budget SummaryAmount(£)
    Total monthly income3,845.07
    Monthly expenses (incl. HP & secured loans)1,974.82
    Available for debt repayments1,870.25
    UNsecured debt repayments2,011.07
    Amount short for making debt repayments-140.82

    Personal Balance Sheet SummaryAmount(£)
    Total Assets (things you own)137,000
    Total Secured & HP Debt-115,884.12
    Total Unsecured Debt-75,207.53
    Net Assets-54,091.65

    Household Information

    Number of adults in household3
    Number of children in household0
    Number of cars owned2

    Income, Expense, Debt & Asset Details

    IncomeAmount(£)
    Monthly income after tax2084.76
    Partners monthly income1760.31
    Benefits0
    Other income0
    Total monthly income3845.07

    ExpensesAmount(£)
    Mortgage292
    Secured/HP loan payments289.1
    Rent0
    Management charge (leasehold property)0
    Council tax125
    Electricity80
    Gas40
    Oil0
    Water Rates47.56
    Telephone (land line)20
    Mobile phone50
    TV Licence12.83
    Satellite/Cable TV61
    Internet services8
    Groceries etc.440
    Clothing20
    Petrol/diesel100
    Road tax10
    Car Insurance60
    Car maintenance (including MOT)25
    Car Parking0
    Other travel0
    Childcare/nursery0
    Other child related expenses0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentists, opticians etc.)20
    Pet Insurance/Vet bills0
    Buildings Insurance15
    Contents Insurance5
    Life Assurance18.13
    Other Insurance15
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc.)50
    Haircuts30
    Entertainment20
    Holiday0
    Emergency Fund100
    Trade union13.7
    HCPC7.5
    Total monthly expenses1974.82

    Secured & HP Debt DescriptionDebt(£)Monthly(£)APR(%)
    Mortgage111000(292)0
    Hire Purchase (HP) Debt4884.12(289.1)3.3
    Secured & HP Debt totals115884.12--

    Unsecured Debt DescriptionDebt(£)Monthly(£)APR(%)
    MBNA 16726.76136.727.93
    MBNA 26291.3997.5325.93
    MBNA 34627.41122.520.93
    Halifax PL216460454.13.44
    Halifax PL14225.89152.614.9
    Overdraft298.7600
    Paypal2198.6710019.9
    Barclaycard 28577.06192.917.68
    Barclaycard 13925.4136.326.75
    Halifax3846.28123.830.2
    Lloyds1973.55022.44
    Tesco 21340.1944.6426.89
    Tesco 19243.2825018.9
    HSBC5472.9415021.9
    Unsecured Debt totals75207.532011.0700000000002-

    Asset DescriptionValue (£)
    Cash0
    House Value (Gross)132000
    Shares and bonds0
    Car(s)5000
    Other assets (e.g. endowments, jewellery etc)0
    Total Assets137000

  • I'm really sorry to be a pain, but I think that something does not add up.

    You have said that you have "been making the payments so far, with minimum payments being made to the credits card".  But your SOA shows that you have a £140.82/month shortfall, meaning you shouldn't have enough to make your contractual monthly payments.

    I work within the voluntary sector, supporting vulnerable people to rebuild their lives.

    I love my job

    :smiley:
  • Hi Willing2Learn, 
    I have not included the £200 per month that I receive from my son for his room and board. This leave £59.18 left over,
    Thanks
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