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First time buyers A bit behind!

gillian3011
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Just after some general advice really. We should have bought a house years ago but we didn’t for lots of reasons, life has got in the way and we’re now 37 and 40.
We’re just saving for a much deposit as we can and then we hope to buy a house. Given that we’re a few years behind most I’m not sure wether to go for the long term house with a larger mortgage (manageable!) and start chipping away at it, or to try buying small/cheaper and moving every couple of years to try to maximise profit.
I know it’s difficult to give an answer not knowing full financial info but just thinking generally how to give us a jump to ‘catch up’ almost. Thanks
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Calculate the costs in moving and you may think otherwise about every couple of years. Then there's the stress and hassle.
Buy a home not an investment.
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Every time you move you will have solicitor fees, estate agent fees, removal costs, stamp duty. Plus the upheaval and the stress of selling/chains collapsing etc. If you can afford to buy a long term home you’ll probably be better off in the long run. If you do have to get something smaller initially, try and at least get yourself something you could stay in for a few years before moving.1
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Thrugelmir said:Calculate the costs in moving and you may think otherwise about every couple of years. Then there's the stress and hassle.
Buy a home not an investment.
.Thank you. I was thinking of going straight for the long term home as our kids will be starting secondary school in the next few years so I do think being somewhere long term will be better.I’ll take a look at interest rates on shorter term mortgages and overpayment options also. Other than save save save is there any other useful things to look at? Thanks
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gillian3011 said:Other than save save save is there any other useful things to look at? Thanks0
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kuratowski said:gillian3011 said:Other than save save save is there any other useful things to look at? Thankskuratowski said:gillian3011 said:Other than save save save is there any other useful things to look at? Thanks1
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I was once told, go as big as you can reasonably afford for your first home and you won’t regret it. We saved the hassle of needing to move again for at least 10 years, to be fair could be our forever home but probably not as I want a detached double garage one day..!1
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Im not sure maximising profit works. If your cheaper homes go up in value chances are so will the more expensive ones.
You then as others have said also have solicitors, stamp duty, valuation fees potentially, moving fees and so on. It can work if you are buying cheaper "project" properties but you have to get it right otherwise they can be money pits.
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EverythingIWant said:I was once told, go as big as you can reasonably afford for your first home and you won’t regret it. We saved the hassle of needing to move again for at least 10 years, to be fair could be our forever home but probably not as I want a detached double garage one day..!0
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